I just received the first negative performance evaluation of my career. My director told me my strategic thinking is too reactive and that I need to step up my ownership of our paid media channels if I want to stay on track for a promotion. How do you emotionally bounce back and rebuild your confidence?

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My take is that a negative performance review can feel very personal, especially when it’s the first one you’ve received. But the way we receive feedback often determines what we do with it.

Leadership starts with leading ourselves first. Use it as data, not a definition of who you are. The best leaders are the ones who can take feedback, grow, and move forward.

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Where is the negative? This is great constructive feedback and you were showed your gaps to stay on track for a promotion. If a boss doesn't care about you they wouldn't share that information or give you that feedback.

Take time to digest the feedback and ask for clarification in a future meeting with your boss if you need to talk it out more. You were given a road map of what to improve on, shake it off and start deep diving into these subjects.

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I’ve been there. Keep your head up and find a project you can wow them with

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