I want to move on with my life, but i can't while im waking up screaming at 0230, covered in sweat, and soaked bed sheets. I dont care about being used, lied to, mistreated, or screwed over by the military and their "mental health specialists". I just want to find my peace in knowing I'll never be made whole. Someone, please tell me that there's hope because im exhausted beyond words, and im losing more than i can recover.

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I'm ex Navy (6 years)and I wanted to offer my support. It sounds like you're really suffering. I think an outside VA therapist from Better Help that you choose would be helpful in this situation. You need somebody who gets you and hopefully give you some coverage over the rough patches. Just don't give in to despair and depression please. I hope your struggles ease soon.

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There is hope. There is always hope! Remember, tomorrow is a new day with new beginnings.

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What's going on? I've been there. I'm here.

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UPDATE: quit the job, found a new place to live, started work doing humanitarian missions, and quit drinking liquor. The VA has rated me 100% and im working on expressing my self doubt instead of keeping it in. I'm doing it guys, im making progress.

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There is hope be patient trust the process there is help with the Va pray and wait on god meditation helps calm the mind

It can be tough. I will be praying for you and that you can pull through this trial brother. I just got out last month after 10 years.

Military is not just a job it is a passion so if it's not your passion then go for another choices find yourself where do you think you're belong

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a challenging time. It's understandable that you're feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. While I'm not a therapist, you do have options like professional help from your work or local community, support groups, loved ones, alternative therapies, self-care, etc. Remember that there is always hope, and with the right support, you can work towards finding peace and healing. Don't hesitate to seek professional help as soon as possible, as it can make a significant difference in your life. All the best!

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