If I want to have kids and be a present parent, are there any New York big law firms or lit boutiques where people have had especially positive experiences? Especially curious about moms but open to dad reflections too.

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I’m at at Sidley. It’s been fine.
I make sure to work with people who have small children or care about their families. Plenty of work to go around.
Never had to miss a school event. I do dinner and bath time 99% of the time and manage to hit my hours. I don’t sleep much though so there’s that.

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A boutique would be your best bet. They do exist! What practice area?

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Midsized firms might be a good bet as well. If you ever want some advice, shoot me a message (I'm on LinkedIn). I'm not an attorney but I'm a mom and legal recruiter. Most of the attorneys I work with are parents looking for a plan or (more often) an exit strategy from a place that is no longer a fit. I'll be happy to share the different paths you can take, and the often hidden trade-offs to each one. There are so many successful parents in the legal industry, and having a plan will definitely give you a head start.

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