I’m dealing with taking care of a 70+ family member that just moved in and is dependent on me. Worried enough about COVID infection. I think my partner may be laid off this week. How to deal??

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one day at a time. figure out what you can control and what you cant. focus your attention on the controllable

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Take it one step at a time. If needed, communicate to manager.

Keep your head up. Everybody will be getting hit hard during this world war V(virus). My parents are also 70+ and I’m sure most of us will be losing some income. Everybody will need to tighten their spending, stay positive, and be safe.

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