I'm European based in London. I'm constantly being joked about being foreigner (Brits joking about us non Brits working in the UK) jokes about my accent etc.

It makes me feel uncomfortable and no matter how much I address this politely, it's still being done.

I try not to let it get to me but sometimes it's hard, it's in the workplace.

Any advice on how to approach this? Hr is not an option, we don't have an HR department

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As a Brit myself these sound like the worst kind of brits, if HR or management isn’t an option and you don’t want to leave, then it’s quite tricky.

This absolutely shouldn’t be acceptable but in their small minds they may think you’re all having a laugh together rather than at your expense. So personally I’d chat back to them and try and make them feel like a fool, just a few retorts I’d go with myself

• ask if they sleep with an England flag as a duvet and brush their teeth with Stella
• ask if they got the Brexit bus to work today
• oh hahah thanks I didn’t know you were racist how’s that working out for you?

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