IMO, girls on online dating apps are confusing. I match with a few (I “like” them, and they “like” me). we talk in app, but the conversation always seem one-sided, with me doing 99.9% of talking/asking. They gave me their numbers... and I thought they have more interest to talk further, but no. These mixed messages are driving me crazy.

30/M going to be in NYC during the week next week and it would be great to grab a nice drink with any lady 🐠!

Any good drinks spots for a date night? Something with a frozen fruit drink or craft cocktails?

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

What are your biggest red flags when dating someone new?

29 M - Any one in Montreal for a relationship?

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

Need advice. Any tips on how to keep libido active ? Have an amazing BF who wants to hump all weekend. (Also desi & travels for work) & Am dead tired, just wanna sleep. Not sure how gets that energy

What are all of the single ladies doing?

31/m/oh straight and looking for fun

Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

Any divorcee or single mom 🐠 here? I am separated, and it’s just been hard dating the other cohort. Looking for someone who understands what I have been through. 35 M here

Safe weekend getaways right now? Meeting a guy for the weekend, can’t stay indoors since my family is with me.

Hi there!!

🥰🥰
I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

"she doesn't have good boobs" †
👀

Currently I’m a CPA at a small firm in AZ, and I want to move to Vegas by the end of May. As such, I have 2 questions:

1. How long will it take me to find a job in LV?
2. When should I start looking?

What social media platforms are you using? General age would be helpful too.

I had an interview the week before Christmas and New Years. I know there is usually a holiday slump - when should I reach out about an update? It will be 3 weeks tomorrow.

Anyone familiar with Ephesoft Transact that would let me pick their brain?

Would you accept sr cloud architect role at 185k + bonus + vested stocks (locked 4 years) from MS when you are already making 205k +50k vested bonus(locked 3 years)in current organization ?

Up antidepressant dosage or quit?
Relatively new position at a coveted firm as their Marketing and BD manager. Have suffered burnout and depressive episodes previously: can feel the symptoms raising it’s head. Most importantly, struggling to tolerate how directors speak to me, whereas previously I wouldn’t take it personally and get on with it. Actively looking for a different position as I’ve come to discover this company exploits EME employees, but want to attempt to end on a “high note”.

For Materials exposure, been eyeing XLB and PICK. Any thoughts on which would be better longer term? Worth adding now?

So… which one of you nutters got up at 3am (EST) to watch DTS? What do we think?

Which city is the best to live in for a couple in their mid twenties?

1. Hamburg
2. Munich
3. Berlin

Thanks in advance!

What are people's deciding factors between working for a Reseller vs Vendor?

Hi All

From last 40-50 day's; I get call from HR ...
.they asked whether they can schedule interview on Wednesday....i said Yes.

But somehow I get schedule cancellation e-mail on or before Tuesday & the process continues from last 1.5 months

Will i get interviewed @accenture or not....

Accenture offering crazy hikes what can be the reason?

Hello Guys

Is it okay to share offer letters that we have with other company recruiters? Aren't offer letters strict and confidential. Can we refuse to show the same or what can we do in these situations

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

How much do you keep in the bank vs brokerage?

I recently got a job offer through a company that offered me the high end of what I was asking (75k) but since it is the high end of what I asked for, do I have room to negotiate? Do I have a leg to stand on if I even try negotiating at the point? I have til Friday to fully accept. I’ve never negotiated my salary but want to be sure I’m being paid fairly for this site merchandiser role! TIA

So just starting a new Position. At thia time I was looking for a good base as need to be stable.

Always into sales since childhood but I have 5 years of proper new business development experience with good track record.

I am starting a position at $80k now I just want your thoughts and feedback an the base. There is also comision and bonuses. Which could be something.

Keep in mind this is also in Canada

I work in industry and was notified that my employer is laying off people in 3 months. In order to get my bonus I have to stay until then. Do I wait 1-2 months before I start applying to other jobs or start now?

How many drinks do you have in the average week? I’m at around 20-25.

I just got a FAANG offer with 290k TC (8 YOE), so I am trying to rent out my place as I need to relocate, but I am not able to find someone to cover my full rent and I am depressed because I am so not investment savvy and I can NEVER EVER accept losing money in ANY SITUATION. Am I being insane?

My career goal isn’t to make it to MBB or a unicorn or FAANG. It’s to feel fulfilled and challenged as I progress. I can’t be the only one that isn’t title or company chasing.

Mom went back to home country and I’ve been moping around holding back tears all day! Tell me it’s gonna be ok, I miss my mom 😭😭

Just found out that my favorite aunt, who claimed I was her “favorite” niece, chose to leave all her valuables to her other two nieces who never visited or called her once in the last ten years. My aunt passed away suffering from cancer last year and didn’t have her own kids. I was there by her side throughout her battle. I still wish I had done more, made her life easier. I probably sound petty, but a part of me is forcing me to re-evaluate every interaction I ever had with her.

@ PE folks, do you think it’s weird if a new member of your Big Law team of lawyers sends you a LinkedIn request as soon as she starts working with you? Is it less weird if I wait?

(The confession is that I eventually want to go in-house at this PE firm, so I want them to like me 😅)

I started a new job a month ago and that just so happened to be when my birth control decided to screw with my emotions. I can barely hold it together already and I have the added stress of a new job and it being busy season. I don’t know what to do. I cry multiple times daily. I don’t know how to keep going.

What’s a pet peeve of yours that a coworker or client does? Mine is that my coworker says “ya know” after literally every sentence they say

There is a team at Deloitte audit whose SM bought them herbal anti stress pills to help them cope with the stress of the job. It’s a big tin of pills and they all take them together. What a toxic environment. Jesus.

Ladies, sometimes we like our hair pulled a little too

Is it a red flag if someone says they don’t believe in self help books like Atomic Habits, Attached, etc?

Women who went back/forgave your cheating partner, why did you do it? Did it work out in the end?

I recommend books I've never read to people who ask for book suggestions.

Anyone else expect there to be loads of attractive people when they started work and end up thoroughly disappointed?

How was you memorial day weekend?

Does anyone remember limewire and Morpheus days. My computer had so many stds from downloading all those music files