Is it truly possible to start a family with two working consultants? Any tips or advice?

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Easy to start. Hard to sustain.

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No. Unless one of you does not travel / works entirely local.

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Procreation works well

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It’s certainly “possible” but difficult to sustain if you both travel as you would be outsourcing the day-to-day raising of your children to a nanny or, presumably, nearby family/grandparents. The question is whether you want someone else raising your children while you are both gone every week. That’s a decision only the two of you can make.

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Very difficult. One of you should be local. Don’t see any other solution .

Have children and hire a nanny

Finding the right strategy is the easy part. Implementation will be tough. Make sure grandparents will be part of the ride, or have trustworthy nannies.

Source: mum was an investment banker, dad was a consultant during childhood years. 3 kids.

@Accenture 1, very interesting. Who do you love more, your parents or your nanny?

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