I've been a paralegal since 2015, in Trusts & Estates (CA). Lost my 2nd job in a year & my mental health went south. Began therapy & a late diagnosis of ADHD & depression (I'm 57). Per the psychiatrist's recommendation, I went on disability for about a year to figure things out. It took 8 months to get the ADHD medication dialed. I thought I had things under control. I went back to work on a contract to permanent paralegal position, only to find myself unemployed again. Not sure what to do now.

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