Married 🐠 do y’all stop caring about your appearance as much after you tie the knot / get in a serious relationship? Genuinely curious...single here, I workout everyday and I’ll admit it’s not because I’m trying to lower my cholesterol or anything like that😂

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Just saying from observation (I’m not married), but there’s a reason the phrase “dad-bod” exists lol 😂 I think it’s comfort weight

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Plus old age and stress of work, kids and less free time to work out.

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My wife was already way more attractive than me when we got married, and despite my best efforts the gap is widening. Staying in shape is the least I can do.

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Just remember that when you get divorced it's much harder to get in shape than to stay in shape.

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Their titles explain it @D3

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My wife has gained a lot of weight after 7 years of marriage. Doesn’t bother me. We’re almost 40 with a kid. Life happens. I’m nothing great to look at it either.

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You’re adorbs M2. I like it.

30 with 3 kids, here. Not sure if my wife really stops to consider my appearance these days. At this point, she is most attracted to me when I get the kids out of the house or jump to change a diaper first.

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😂😂😂 funny question.. when I got married I stopped working out for a brief period of time. I restarted again after 6 months of being married because I was missing something. When I had kids (back to back years), I didnt work out for 2 straight years.. You are right, you dont work out for lowering cholesterol initial, you workout for improving aesthetics but slowly those reasons change. I am 40 now and I workout 5 days a week. 80% Cardio. I got into cholesterol issues 7 months ago and started. Long story short, the motivations change over time. Everytime you resume, the first few days are difficult. But, 2 weeks after being regular, it becomes a habit and you don't need new motivation, it becomes hygiene. Cheers to good health.

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I guess after you’re married and have kids you have more reasons to care about lowering your cholesterol.

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My SO and I go to the gym to lift weights regularly since we started seeing each other 8 years ago. No kids here, but we do look significantly hotter than we did 8 years ago 😉

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I think the types of workouts change for those that keep up with it. Pre-marriage I was lifting heavy, trying to stay larger than my normal weight. Now we both do lots of yoga, cycling, and body-weight calisthenics which is honestly way better for long-term health.

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LBC1 I mean I’m here for it but you’re going to scare a lot of boys off if that’s your opener. Prob not the boys you are looking for anyway though

Not sure if it's marriage specifically or just getting older in general

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Looking good is feeling good. Same reason you don’t let your house look and feel like a trash pile.

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Waiting for the cold embrace of death...I feel nothing.

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A1 do you not know where you are?

I'm in better shape than pre marriage but yes your spouse will probably still love you with chub

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Hey SC I don't know their spouse 😆

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I work our every day but more for mental benefits. I’m also pregnant so I can’t imagine how I’ll look after since I’m eating like a monster 😂

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I'm married
Def got out of shape since getting married and gained sympathy weight with my wife during pregnancy. She's started losing the weight and I have not.
However, we did start making better choices together and will see the difference in years to come

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Today I met with a cardiologist. I’m 50 and just peaked at weight and cholesterol. I’ve never been this heavy or at this LDL level. After 30 years in NYC I’ve been sheltering outside the city. No joke, suburbia is hazardous to my health.

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No, but I attribute this to the fact that my wife and I are very active and keen on fitness. We work out together and are each others’ coach in the gym.

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Recently engaged and I used to be really into working out. Forcing myself to get back into it now because I don’t want to be complacent. My partner is a health nut and I’m afraid she’ll kick me out if I put in the pounds lol. Find ways to motivate myself is the hardest part!

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I always worked out but in a relationship you may find that drops to 3 times a week instead of 5 cos it’s nicer to cuddle in the morning than hit gym. + pizza/cake/bag of chocolate on a night in becomes a more regular thing

Never let myself get fat but my abs weren’t visible anymore and I was definitely softer overall

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It’s not that you don’t care. It’s that there are more pressing priorities that you need to attend to in your life. There are only so many hours in a day and you have to pick and choose what to focus vs what to let go. More often than not, you choose to focus on family, kids and career. By the time you’ve attended to all of these, you’re either out of time or out of energy to focus on working out.

I’m sure as the kids get older, I’ll regain back more time for myself. Then back to the gym grind.

-former gym rat (6x per week) turned father

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