My boss is mean to everyone, but my VA coworkers and I have noticed she's extra hard on me. The person she favors only has a year of ER experience and has been there as long as me. She already said he would be the next head tech. It's gotten to the point where I am cleaning up his messes to avoid getting in trouble. Her hostility genuinely holds me back from learning and excelling at my job. I'm wondering if it's like this at all independent vets or if I should take what I've learned and find somewhere better, even with a pay cut.

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Oooof!! Pay is hard to overlook. Sometimes, we'll break our backs and hearts to stay for the check, never minding our souls being crushed under the weight. However, no amount of money is worth being treated like shit and being stuck in toxicity.
If they're not seeing your worth, then find somewhere that does. Not all clinics are the same. I've worked in some I've flourished in and others that I couldn't stand. Do what you need to do to survive, but don't think you won't find a better fit for you. This world is big!!

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Time to leave, OP. There's no career growth or support system. What's the point of staying?

How's your performance? Do you think there's really something to improve? If he's being unreasonable, then I think it's time to look for another job.

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