My boyfriend is telling me to stay with him and continue the relationship or else he will have mental health issues. What should I do? I no longer see any future together…

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He already sounds like someone with mental issues.. you are not his therapist. If he is struggling, he needs to find a therapist. Not your problem! Do what makes you happy!

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