Is getting back together with an ex always a bad idea?

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Pretty much yeah

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Do you want to work for your old employer again?

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No of course not. But as is the case in anything in life, finance and relationships included: it depends. If your SO cheated on you, yea, youre just asking to get hurt. If you broke up do to distance or career and now those issues are fixed go for it

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Yes it is.

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There are nuances. But yeah bad idea.

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