My manager is getting on my nerves. Every time I bring up an issue he tells me to talk to the partner about it. I think I’m going to start clarifying im being directed to do this and im not just doing it of my own volition?

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Yeah, just send an email and say something like

“ Hi (partners name)

I just spoke with (managers name) about xyz. He suggested I talk to you about xyz. Do you have time to hop on a call to discuss further?”

You could honestly also CC the manager on the email. If he gets mad about that just say you wanted to keep him informed on the status of the problem

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Yeah I think this is the way to do it. To cover my ass most of the time I say some variant of this like “following discussion with manager xyz we would like to consult you further about topic abc”. It doesn’t sound passive aggressive if you’re just stating facts.

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Directed to do it by whom?

The manager

Oh. Tell partner you are being directed to go to the partner? I think that's fine. Either the partner will realise manager is not handling you properly or they will see the managers tactic and maybe provide some clarity.

take advantage of the extra exposure to the partner

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