My parents are looking for bride, I am scared of below things any suggestion / comments would be helpful
1) she should have no last (or should be virgin atleast)
2) I would not like my girl to be hanging out with male friends on every day (I am ready to marry non working)
3) she should respect me and my Parents( I would equally respect her parents as mine)
4) I don’t want her to casually flirt with male knowns ( I have seen this in ofc and and restraunts)
5) please add anything to keep in mind

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Your expectations are like "I will not hurt the snake. Hence the snake should also not bite me". But it is in the nature of snake to bite.

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Trying to find a non venous snake

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With all these criteria you have only 0.0001% chance of gettimg that kind of girl
If you are scared then dont get married, indian men should ideally boycott marraige, indian judiciary has enabled women to file fake cases without any repercussions. So if something went wrong in marraige even within 30years then husband is screwed, we need to think rationally.
As a men do we really need to get married?
First of all why we need marraige in this generation, the major reason for marraige in olden days was to provide and protect women and to grow the family. Now women need no protection and growing family doesnt really matter now as there is no guarantee that ur child will take care of you in ur olden days like how our parents cared for our grandparents.
Think how much we spend on wife even if ahe is earning well. If you save that money which you spend on ur wife then you can be with different girl every month for ur physical needs 😜.
Men should think before falling to the trap of marraige in this generation.
Now i will give you the real picture of our country.
First thing our judiciary is primarily focused on business and not the justice. Justice comes later after they have squeezed money from husbands.
Marraige settlement in india is a multibillion dollar industry 😜.
Our political parties are femisnt oriented parties, and we have lot of women NGO who gets lot of funds from outside india to increase this women propaganda, for ex.. this reflects in media where rapes and harrasment related to women are getting viral but harrsment on men, rape on men, false cases on men, murder of husbands by wife, murder of kids by mother are not where in media and even if they are no one make it viral. And no candle light protest on road for men victims.
Everything is a feminist propaganda in india.
If men dont stand against our own problem i stead if we support this feminist propaganda like what current #nirbhaya2 trend is happening and these men simps are supporting without actual knowledge on these propagandas will become next victims soon.

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Yes you are correct and these women are doing honeytrap and this word is not completely lost. What you said is completely correct men actually support women more than the men. Even if u see even after 10 days you will find very less interaction on this post

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I think that such girls are very rare, but that doesn't mean that such girls are not in existence. These girls can be brought in front of you by your relatives. Those relatives who actually care for you, and you might find these girls in tier 2 or tier 3 cities. Look at the right place, and let's hope you find the one you are actually looking for..All the best!

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6) scared of fake cases, divorce in case she gets into extramarital affair

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My advise would be to marry a known girl in your family and friends network. Since you are ok to marry a non-working girl, it is better to look for girl from a conservative family

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If she is earning enough so that she can maintain herself easily and if you have proofs of all those then you can fight in court to not get any maintainance.

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Yes thats true but u will never know a person until you marry and live with. So with these laws in hands of women will eventually make them snakes which will bite.. Thats why marraiges are failing these days

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@consultant its not girls alone its abt the law, even girls with no intention of scamming will be adviced by the lawyers and relative to file false cases on husband, guess you have not seen the reality when marraige goes sour.
Every year there is 7L 498a cases filed in india in 2023 alone, and india will usally see 80lakh marraiges a year on average.
So do the math 10% of marraige are already gng till police station. I guess u might have seen something like this happened somewhere in ur relation or friend circle. So this is a huge problem faced by married men these days because of biased laws.

I might not I have seen many of these things and guess what they all belong to good families there was a time these things were thought to be done in bad family

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