Not exactly introvert issue but social anxiety- dating a guy and it’s kind of ambiguous. He invited me to a party tonight and my heart is racing at the thought of meeting all these strangers. Advice?

Dating my guy for 6 months now and he’s just such a lovely soul but I’m not physically attracted, there’s no spark and I’m afraid to let go but also afraid to keep holding on..

How many people have hooked up with someone on their team? Is it that common?

35 Female NYC, 🥳

39M in West LA, looking to meet someone for drinks and see where things go! (Never married, no kids)

Not having luck finding a relationship or having any guys interested in me for 28 years. Thinking about resorting to plastic surgery to increase my chances of finding somebody

Met this really cute guy at national training, exchanged phone number, but he's heading back to home office tomorrow. Advice?

Which holds better value a sub with date or without?

Someone teach me how to flirt! How do I let this guy know I’m into him?

Looking to settle a debate between myself and a few friends - at what point is it appropriate to ask someone you’re dating if they’re also dating other people? Relatedly, do you have an obligation to tell whoever you’re dating that you’re dating other people?

Looking for 1 female flatmate in 3 bhk (unfurnished) at Riverdale Residencies, Kharadi

Single occupancy rent: 14k
Spacious room with unattached washroom.

Dm if genuinely interested. Have to finalize quickly.

Anyone in a Florida PE shop want me to take them to lunch and the strip club and maybe play some Xbox afterwards? It’s kind of a date but not really. plz hire me

Question that could belong here or in the Relationships bowl:

How do women prefer to be turned down if the guy they’re pursuing is not interested. I know men have the capacity to deal with rejection poorly, and I’m not suggesting otherwise. But in my anecdotal experience , women take the gentle “no thanks, not interested” poorly.

There's a guy on 29who never shuts up. If you are reading this - be quite already

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

Any female fish want to grab a drink this weekend?

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Any 35+ male 🐠 want to chat and see where things go? 33F in a smaller East Coast US city but very willing to travel to meet in person if we actually hit it off.

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

Any recommendations for turtle necks? I usually buy them from massimo dutti back in Europe, the ones I find here tend to be very thick

Can wife claim husbands PAN for HRA? Flat is in the name of husband

Could someone who is in the room on talent day please explain the process? Our are names just put on a slide show with your snapshot scores, chargeability, firm wide contributions, and years of experience then MDs just give the green light or not? Any clarification would be greatly appreciated!

Can anyone recommend good investment options in Bank of America HSA account? I feel their funds are very limited compared to what I have seen from 401k and IRA. Anyone recommends your HSA account?

I'm thinking of leaving firm life and applying to the NY SG's office. Anyone heard anything about it (work environment, prestige, etc.)?

Does anyone use blue light glasses? Do they help? I get headaches almost every day and I’m sure it’s because I’m glued to the screen all day. Wondering how to alleviate them without popping 4 ibuprofens a day.

I’m a first-time prospective lateral likely to get an offer shortly. I just received a lateral questionnaire that requests billable hours, rates, fees collected, etc. for the last three years. Forgive my ignorance but is this normal/standard? Do people actually answer these honestly? One of the reasons I’m leaving my firm is there isn’t enough work in my group so of course my hours are low.

Legato Hi All, Does anyone got recently selected at Legato and waiting for the HR to call? I was told last week that HR would call and I haven’t received any call or email

Exited to a tech company 2 weeks ago. Should I be worried about layoffs… strategy and operations role

What is the average hike provided in Reliance Jio for an employee who is already at market standard and at Manager position. Consider he rated top in a fiscal year with no promotion? Please consider 4 year average while answering if possible.

I have my first case review I am kind of nervous about it, wish me luck. I am not scared, I am just nervous about it.

I cannot for the life of me hit a 3 wood off the fairway. Any tips on how to get consistent with this club?

How is Novartis Management Consulting Domain? I have got an offer for 20.5L

YOE - 3.5yrs

CMAAS Senior Associate interview questions?

Not able to clear Independence Training for new joiners can anyone help how I can clear this?

It takes me time to warm up & connect to new people, esp. in casual settings. Anyone any strategies how to deal with that? I see I am missing out on good and deeper connections.

I feel like I’m overlooked a lot because I like to think that my work stands for itself — so I tend not to network as much. Does anyone have any tips on getting better about putting yourself out there? Any tips greatly appreciated (just a bit tired of losing to the extroverts in 2021 still)

I’m an ambivert starting out in consulting. I hate small talk and find happy hours typically less than engaging. I become enervated with too much loudness. Any tips for navigating consulting?

Alright. I want to get some perspective. How many men in this introvert bowl are men? Whenever I speak about my introversion, people say ‘mostly girls are shy’. WTF!
- A proudly introverted man here.

Best headphones for air travel?

My Bose QuietControl 30’s fell apart this week. In the market for a replacement. What do my fellow introverts recommend for blocking noise on airplanes?

The worst imaginable thing happened today. Someone tried to start multiple conversations with me in the quiet room of the library. Thank you all for your support during this difficult time.

Any tips for how to make internal networking feel more natural? I know face time without a specific client need is important, but I can't find a way to make it feel authentic.

Oh, the beauty of the solo Sunday brunch ☺️🍳

anyone have resources to help with social anxiety? would love to have some solid advice to turn to to help with networking

What do you do to be aware what peers and others outside your circle are up to?

How do I get more involved in team room conversations? Any practical tips? I have good comebacks in my head just have trouble voicing them

Good jobs for introverts? So over consulting.

I got feedback from my manager telling me that I should always have an opinion, which is very hard in group settings, esp. when people are talking about a topic unrelated to my module. Any thoughts ?

I hate giving presentations. Any tips for feeling (or at least looking) comfortable and confident?

Does anyone else have “email social anxiety”? Not with writing emails that have to do with content/work I did, but when I’m “just checking in” and doing vaguely unsaid social things I’ve never understood well.
I feel super awkward and read too into things, it takes me 30+ min for a simple friendly email to a manager or above and I get worked up about it.