Partner invited me to come stay at his house and hang out. We’ve been working together closely for about a year, all virtual. How should I interpret this?

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You have to choose b/w getting laid vs laid off.

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OP - don’t overthink this. The Partner has a good working relationship with you, and is opening up his personal house and life to you. I deem this a very positive and exceptional step, that not many do. I don’t understand why people have to make everything out to be about harassment or ulterior motives. There are good human beings on this earth also, and we have to learn to embrace that. Keep us posted on how the weekend goes!

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This...and he probably wants to bone you on the side.

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Layoff invites getting weirder by the day 😂

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Don't jump to any conclusions about his intentions, go see for yourself. Maybe he wants to discuss hard business, maybe he wants to discuss other things that are hard-- in either case you have unlimited upside. If he wants the D then let him down gently, and do not be afraid to suck a dick or two. Good luck.

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Sleepover?

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Y’all gonna Netflix and bill?

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Friendships at work with superiors are a double edged sword. Could either go really well or really south. You know which way it will lean much better than us

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Um did everyone forget about covid? Why are you traveling to a different part of the country and going into someone else home??

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Same gender?

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Yup

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Maybe he just wants to HANG OUT? Jeez.

(or let it hang out)

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Please provide genders so we can offer further malarky

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To each their own 🤷🏿 malarkey away!

What is the plan? Are you planning on watching Netflix and kicking back?

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Sounds great to me. Partner invited me to his home office. Was better than any office meeting from a relationship building perspective. Met his wife and we later went out for lunch.

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May be your partner wants you to be his daughters partner ... just some food for thought 😄😄

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If you have to ask...

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No big deal. Probably has a nice place & wanted to socialize and also get to know you better. I’ve personally done this a few times (usually with a few team members at a time).
Just be good company.
If it feels weird to you, decline politely.

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Secks

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Just go with the flow baby boy 👦

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A little weird if you’re the only person going tbh

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Yea....need more info.

Let us know if you’re on the fast track director 😬

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