Should two introverts marry each other?
I'm an introvert myself and met one person through an arranged marriage set-up who herself is introverted.
Previously,I had the notion that my better half should be someone who can cheer me up when I'm feeling low or love talking so that there'll be no boredom.
But now I'm confused whether I should go ahead with this person or not because she is really understanding and our thoughts are aligned just that both of us are shy.
Need some genuine advice here.

Wife is twelve weeks pregnant. Just found out we’re having our third boy.

My sister & I don’t get along because i feel she is extremely rude & prefers outsiders over family. My parents however, despite the fact that she disrespects them too, always say she is our daughter & we have to deal with it so just let her be. My mom thinks she is not in a good financial state so we should help her & I don’t want to given her disgusting behavior. Every time i buy something nice for myself, my mom kind of pushes me to buy for her too, and I don’t want to. Continued..

SO said he couldn’t receive letters during Ranger School, but finding info online that I can send. Any insight? Maybe he doesn’t want the distraction?

Important question! Any strategies for getting out of work zoom happy hours? Other than ignoring requests and not showing up, which has been my MO so far. But it’s getting a bit awkward.

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

My mom’s friend was supposed to come to my wedding in a week and just cancelled. I’ve never met her but my mom insisted she be invited. This person already sent us a check which we deposited already; we already sent a thank you card. This person left me a VM saying they were sorry they couldn’t come; they have leukemia and their Dr. didn’t approve. Do I need to call them back? I would like to avoid an awkward phone call about personal matterwith a stranger but also don’t want to be insensitive.

Ghosted once more after what I thought was a great first date. Guess I’ll give up on love forever.

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Hadn’t noticed this sub before, and most of the threads are old so thought I’d ask a follow up - how has everyone been handling parenting with public accounting? I’ve got a toddler and my wife is an accountant (industry), and we only have a few immediate family in the country- but they have health concerns. Busy season was rough, things are looking better now as things return to normal. Still working crazy hours if you count the daycare duties on top of utilization targets.

Stupid question but getting a divorce now and having a hard time figuring out what to do with sentimental things such as wedding pictures, travel pics, ornaments we bought together, etc. What did you do? Relationship was over 12 years and don’t know what to do. Should I jus pretend that those 12 years never happened or she was not there?

Divorce is amicable and based on growing apart rather than bc of cheating or fighting or anything else..

why do i struggle when my s/o isn’t texting me? ik they’re not cheating on me, ik they still love me, all that jazz.

but for some reason i’m not at peace when they take some time to themselves.

any tips or advice?

Anyone else struggling with hormones / mood swings? I am almost 16 weeks and been having a real tough time lately, feeling really down and stressed about things. Sadly, causing tension between me and my partner as well as he cannot relate and seems preoccupied with business as usual. Trying to get out the funk and just telling myself it’s all the hormones.

Looking for a husband 🤣

Sadly this is where I ended up (going through divorce with 6mo infant). Abusive spouse wants shared custody when he doesn’t know a thing about taking care of an infant.. any advice would help re custody or divorce as well. We are not in speaking terms

I’ve been in a relationship now for two years. We are living together. We talk about the future etc. I could easily see myself marrying her. However, I have an issue… cont

Hard to make friends here - just moved to the city and found out all my friends here are in pair. Need friends to go out with

Can I buy 2 houses , one in a district with school ratings 4/10 and another house with school district 9/10? And then send kid to school which is 9/10 .

Currently don’t have kids. But would have them soon enough to send them to school after 5 years.

Is it legally allowed to have two residences in same area but different zip codes and choose better school for the kid ?

Been having trouble moving on since girlfriend ended relationship 3 weeks ago after 2+ years of dating. Before ending it she came over 3 weeks prior to basically give me a chance to work things out and we had a good discussion but then I went back into our routine and didn’t really fight for it or have serious follow up convos that we needed. Now I just have so many regrets that I let her go. I know we still love each other and left on “good” terms but can’t forgive myself for my lack of action.

I just came home sobbing because I got too drunk at my female best friends house and her husbands male friend tried to take advantage of me when we were left alone in a hot tub. My boyfriend didn’t ask if I was okay but instead screamed at me, threw things and left the house. Dumping him is the only logical answer?? Am I crazy?

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

I feel like I'm going through really bad imposter syndrome, How do you manage it ?

Looking to move to the client/ brand side of things from the agency world. Decades of successful experience running integrated marketing strategy and execution for major fortune 100 companies as well as start ups in B2B and B2C. Fintech, finserv, SaaS, tech, RE experience. Any leads would be appreciated.

I have been tagged for this project that doesn’t start until June 10th. My utilization is going to drop significantly but at the same time the deployment team cannot present me elsewhere. Ugh!

What exactly does a "Knowledge Attorney" do at firms that have them? My firm doesn't have such a thing, so I'm not sure if it's an opportunity worth pursuing or not. I'm definitely not interested if it's comparable to the Conflict Attorney role which is essentially dead end.

Tips on giving notice over the phone? I’m required to be in the office 5 days a week but the two partners I work for never come on Fridays or Monday mornings

What should be my ask to UST global for a senior cybersecurity role. I am having 10.4 yr experience. My current is 41LPA UST Global

32M NYC - BW only please

YOE -5.9
CCTC -18+3VP + 20% Promotion in oct22
Location - Gurgaon (UP Hometown)

Paypal, Chennai- 19.5+2 JB+2 VP+4L rsu

LTI, Pune - 28+2.6VP

Please help me choose.

Hello Fishes,

Is it good to join Kyndryl from current organisation NTT Data for location Bangalore ?
Is it possible to discuss regarding Work from Home or work from nearest reporting location ?

Need suggestion and your help!

Thank you in advance!

Hey Corporate Gang,

Help me unlock my DMs..

Thanks in advance!

How did you begin to implement equity and inclusion into your organization?

I️ am pursuing a Product Management Internship in Big Tech for next summer. I️ am comfortable reaching out to people to network and know who to reach out to. However, I️ have not found the convos to be all that helpful. Any advice on how to make these convos useful?

I have total 4 years of experience in IT, relevant experience is 3 years in testing,but my designation is technical support engineer,is this will create any problem during interview and during verification?please advice

Hey Dudes,

I am fair bulky guy but since few months I am noticing my cheeks has dark spot coming up... Its just like Genda swami... Is there home remedies or something that I can do to fix it...

Offtopic:

Took a Tommy Hilfiger watch few years ago and wanted to get it repaired. How do I get it done?

Don't remember the outlet I took it from

Relaxed fit cargos or slim fit?

Wearing for the first time.
Do not want to look Chapri AF

Let's make this group better. Suggestions?

Thinking to drop a few YT videos on fashion, clothing, grooming etc

Hello bros,
Need one suggestion. My close friend is gng to marry soon. So I need some suggestions to what I should give as a gift. Until now I gave gift with group. This time I'm giving by myself.
I can't afford expensive things.
Thanks in advance!!

Why are most Indians obsessed with Jockey?

I have seen this since college days...

There's no interesting bowl for women to discuss things they want

Guys thoughts on #NNN..??
Any 1 lost already..?

Has anyone tried Polo Tshirts from Nautica?

Reviews?

Is it okay to trim your chest hair?

Note: Not the entire chest, just the hair visible in case your top 2 buttons are open/or the hair which is above your vest area.

Boys, don't spoil your goals behind holes.

Is it worth going for AM?

My salary is 16LPA fix +10% variable pay. M i earning enough? Have a family of 3. Additional info- Rented house in Delhi, car emi

Has anyone tried PRP treatment for hair loss?
I don't have male pattern baldness, but patchy hair loss and doctors are saying two session of prp would be enough.

Is it good? Whether it restored your hairs?

Is it normal to sleep only in your vest and briefs?

ab purposeless life jine me bilkul maza nahi aata... wahi roz ki chik chik ghar me, harami rishtedar aur office me stress aur politics.
kya karein kaha jayein...