Sometimes I'm just at a loss. Today, I met with the parents of a 2nd grader to try and set up SBA (Speech by Appt). Despite trying my best, the parents don't want their child in speech even though there are some issues going on that I'd like to try and correct. I tried my best to be persuasive but they weren't having it. I'm just in shock... why wouldn't they want their daughter to be able to have therapy? I feel like there will be social consequences of having speech issues down the road...

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They’re in denial. Maybe they believe if they ignore the “problem” it will go away and they won’t be embarrassed in front of their social circle. You did your part.

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That's definitely what it seems like. I wonder if maybe the parents did not get enough education to realize that this would be a good thing for their child.

Poor kid! I hope the parents change their mind and help the child get what they need.

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Me too! I'm keeping an eye out for another opportunity to talk to them about it.

Talk with a speech specialist at your school and ask for ways to connect the issues she’s having. I involved my other students to get my nonverbal students to speak and both were rewarded for their efforts. I also kept a mirror and Dum Dums in my drawer and have them look in the mirror at themselves while speaking words the have difficulty saying. I stand to the side so I model it and they look at themselves making the same movements with their tongue and teeth. I used the Dum Dums to help move their tongue to the correct position, as well. The progress you’ll make with her will be so awesome. I teach special education and have done this many times having only success from doing these things. Good luck!!!! It’s great seeing a teacher care and love their students as much as you do!

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Thank you for your kind words! Your dum dum method is great! I will definitely have to try that.

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I am a special education teacher and I have a son that the district wanted to test and put him in Special education back in 3rd grade. Well let me say this we said "no". He he graduated high school no problems went on to serve 4 years in the Navy. Went to college and worked for PNM at over $110,000 per year. He now is the foreman for a pest control company (8 people under him) making more than I make as a teacher. So there can be success it is up to the family first. Be convincing they have there own thought too.

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That is a great success story, I am happy for your son!

I found that, at times I had to be brutally honest with parents and tell them things like... if this behavior doesn’t change I can see that their trajectory for school won’t be good; or if there’s a suicidal student and parents balk at taking their child for an eval, I tell them that I hope they don’t later think, ‘if I only…’
Short of that, you have to go with the parent wants but don’t be surprised when these same parents seek you out as time goes on. That frequently happened in my experience.

In a word? Ego. Some parents place their own feelings.before the betterment of their children.

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