To people who hook up with coworkers that they have to see every day: Why? Are you not afraid of the professional consequences? Or is your office pretty lax about this kind of thing?

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Do you like him? He's an adult, went to college, got a full time job at a big four firm. I wouldn't worry about it. The manager is the one that should make sure she is complying with HR policies as she's the supervisor in this situation. She should technically remove him from the engagement or stop seeing him outside of work completely.

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It's fun

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Sounds like someone is jealous of the person some booty

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I heard that this senior made out with his manager at a happy hour. Keep in mind that he works directly with her and she writes his reviews. This seems completely unprofessional to me.

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Just let them bang whoever they want, god damn.

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Funnily enough, nothing will prob happen. Guys get to have their cake and eat it too. Now if it were a woman, the reputational damage would be through the roof.

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Let's play spot the feminist.

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The few times I've done, I was either blacked out or high on cocaine.

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He is probably getting amazing reviews now.. But if they have a falling out, he is so screwed.. Unless they are able to keep their professional careers and their sexual relations separate. Too bad we can't all bone the manager for better reviews.

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Hit it and quit it.

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The thing is, he isn't just boning one person. He's boning a few girls in the office and I'm just wondering why anyone would take that risk.

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Let the people do what they want to do, they are adults and can make their own decisions

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Look people make mistakes. Why judge these people? You might not have made the same mistakes but trust me you have other vices.

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^ wave. I'm right here, buddy.

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^if only there were more people like us in this industry. Would make it a whole lot better to deal with people if they weren't uptight assholes

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Something I learned really early in my career another industry; never, and I mean NEVER, stick your (insert reference to male genitalia of choice here) in the cash register, someone is bound to close the drawer on it.
Not worth the trouble, in the long run.
"Co-workers with benefits" is a recipe for disaster. The can't be any difference in position, or it is a sexual discrimination law suit waiting to happen.

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Seems like a one way ticket to getting canned.

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At least you can admit it @EY1

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^Point being he's an adult and if he wants to play with fire then so be it. He should be well aware of the consequences.

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That's why I work in audit, so I don't have to see them that often at work.

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