Anyone experience not working well with managers and up (due to micro-management, talk to you like a child, etc), but find them cool outside of work? Finding it hard to hang with them during HH now.

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No. Those people aren’t cool outside of work. They aren’t even cool at an accounting firm. Which means, they aren’t cool anywhere

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Agree. Micro managers have no cool whatsoever

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If I don't respect inside the work place, the I am not hanging out with you outside the work place. When people show you their true colors - that is who they are. Micromanagers and offensive people need to "grow their whole-selves". I experienced that behavior at a different firm. It's not worth it. No salary is. Find a way to communicate that type of behavior is not acceptable. I decided to leave that firm and joined Grant Thornton. Do what's best for you to find a healthier working environment.

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I’m a micromanager by nature. That’s my cross to bear but I try to work on it every day. That stated, don’t you EVER lump that in with being offensive and not respecting my coworkers.

And yes, I’m tons of fun at HH!!!!!

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