What are your thoughts on the marital debt? Do you ever talk about it or ask for the debt to be paid by your spouse?

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Nope. Doesn't sound like a Catholic Christian concept honestly. Fundamentalist Christian and possibly sadistic and uncharitable.

Completely not part of the Theology of the Body as outlined by JPII. Even if it could be construed as legitimate, I cannot think of a time or place when it makes sense.

Consent is required for marriage at a basic requirement of the sacrament. I don't think requesting "marital debt" to be paid is living the spirit of the sacrament.

There will be ebbs and flows in desire and those can and should be addressed tactfully and with patience with the primary concern being enthusiastic consent, not just going through the motions.

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