What's the best way for women in the workplace to deal with hostile and disrespectful male sales reps. For context, we work in lateral positions within the same company (he's not above Account Managers), but he's awful to female AMs in the way he speaks online to them, and constantly tells clients wrong info that CS has to tactfully walk back. I've brought the issue up consistently with my manager for over a year, sales VPs can see his online exchanges with us, but nothing ever gets done.

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That sounds like discrimination on the basis of sex. I’d speak to HR. If you don’t feel they’re taking action appropriately you can also file with the EEOC.

Assuming you have, but also intervening in situations where he’s creating a hostile work environment will go leaps and bounds with the women on the receiving end of his vitriol.

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That's really helpful, thank you. I've tried to handle it privately (we had an awful 1x1 a year ago) and with my boss. I've been nervous to escalate to HR, but it does affect my work and my clients. I'll start gathering some screenshots and make a plan to take to HR

The company I work for is the same way. They tolerate bad behavior. That tells me they are not a good company. It starts at the top!

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I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with this issue. It sounds like you've been taking the proper steps by bringing this to the attention of your manager and the sales VPs. If you haven't already, I would recommend documenting all instances of the sales rep's inappropriate behavior, including screenshots of online exchanges and any incorrect information given to clients.

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If they won’t do anything about it quit. They hear you they just don’t care.

Keep us posted on what you will do next and the outcome please

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