Would anyone married/engaged kind enough to talk for few minutes? I'm struggling with my relationship and wants to see how others have gone through the process before getting engaged/married.

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I had serious doubts about my partner. But chose to ignore them..got married and quickly got divorced. Trust your gut... And do not get married until you are sure.. The divorce tag is brutal..

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Thanks for sharing. I pm'd you a question if you are free

Hi OP, I'm available after 5pm EST if you need someone to talk with

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Struggling in what way?
I’m recently married

It’s normal but see if there’s any truth in those doubts and fears.
Also continue to submit those fears over to the Lord.

Why do you think she’s not the one? What would the one look/feel like?

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