28M here. Last few weeks have been stressful both at work & at home, feel like nothing is sticking in my mind. I go to gym regularly.
Thing is, from last 1-2 weeks I am not getting erections, even with stimulations. Before this, I had regular healthy strong erections, morning ones too. Never felt so before even in more stressful times.

Is this normal?, I am getting worried if this is related to mental state or some issue. Not a good sign around marriageable age 🙁

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Not sure if it's due to mental state but it is definitely not normal at this age if it's not happening even after stimulation.
See for couple of days, otherwise better visit a doctor. These things shouldn't be taken lightly IMO.

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Welcome to IT trauma stage.
After few years in IT, this happens to most of the IT engineers. The stress is high in IT, most are unhappy with job, plus add all the politics and unfair treatment in job. Plus living alone, no friends, and bad food habits.

And it happened slowly as your age increases.

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SSE bhai, thanks a lot for those words. Yeah, I hope the same. A good life partner will warm the life 😃, I'll take some time off to reset things.

Check your testosterone levels. If testosterone levels are low make a significant change in your diet. If nothing works, go to the urologist

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1. Make A Rule -> 8 hours work, 8 hours
sleep, & 8 hours full masti including time
for basic stuff eating etc

2. Start exploring the Emotion
Intelligence, it's an Art, only Artists can
handle emotions in their own ways.

3. Make hobbies, not like listening to
music, watching movies etc rather playing
outdoor games, gardening etc

4. Have a pet at your home, spend time
with those creatures.

5. Engage yourself with the people
around you and whoever needs help, try
to support them.

Sooner you will find yourself placed in

a more rich environment in terms of
positivity.

Make a commitment -> We want to
change the world before we die.

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If you need help or mentoring any time, you can reach me, I have been mentoring people.

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