5 years at my current job, consistent annual raises/good feedback. Ended up with a new boss earlier this year who has since taken me off of every account and hired someone they referred to basically replace me. I questioned the situation, said I’m moving into a new role, no further clarity. Now I’m constantly told that everything I do is wrong and getting lectured during daily check-ins about how shit I apparently am at my job. Have never felt so discouraged. Any advice on how to get thru this?

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You could push to get clarity and answers…

But if I were you, I’d start looking for a new job. It sounds like the person they hired is trying to push you out. This happens a lot, I wouldn’t take it personally ( I know, easier said then done). But right now, it seems like you’re not in a position to get control of the situation. Once you start looking for a new and better job, you’ll feel like you’re heading in a healthier direction. Hang in there, you’ll get through it.

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This is definitely a hostile situation and not conducive for you to be at your best. Talk to your career counselor and HR, your MD or account leaders and get this on record. Ask for a real role change outside the current project/ team/ boss.

In the meantime, Go for therapy and get certificate of mental trauma and toll this workplace toxicity is taking on you (I failed to do that).

My 2 cents, this situation will not improve any further, your new boss is insecure and is trying to create their own team and definitely you are not in their inner circle. Get out before they can do any further damage to you. Toxic people never change, they will only say they will but can’t really change. Stay away.

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I would look but you could also provide examples to hr that contradict things people are saying. To move you out it's easier if they can just make up stuff about you. I've even spoken out loud in meetings to contradict & have announced "I'm saying this to contradict the current narrative that I am ....(whatever it is). You have to know for sure you are not however.

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Update: Got fired today.
Was supposed to close on a house next month…we no longer qualify for the mortgage.
And I had just told them that I’m pregnant.
What a fucking day.

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