A mix-up between a marriage proposal call and a client investment proposal. 😅

#lostinthenumbers #proposalmixup #worklifebalance

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Ugh Libby's family is just as toxic as Andrei!

Are there any ECDs/CDs not divorced or in a struggling relationship? Does career success = personal relationship failure?

Has anyone successfully maintained a sustainable heterosexual open relationship? What’s the secret to maintain a healthy open relationship?

If you could go back and start over would you still choose this path? Or would you choose a different career and/or a different time to have children? I accidentally became a working parent in law so while I love my job and my children I don't think I would have planned it quite like this.

I don’t understand how someone can lie about loving you for 6 months. We were together for almost a year (broke up a week before our anniversary). I said I love you first and he said it back. I asked for more reassurance last month with saying I love you more often. Now all of a sudden he said he didn’t know if he loved me and that love meant marriage for him. Okay well great thanks for telling me this now, 6 months after it was initially exchanged. I don’t understand how he could do that.

Has anyone quit their job because of a relationship? I started my job 3 months ago and now my employer wants me to move to NY. The thing is, I fell in love during the pandemic with a friend that I have known for 3 years. It's frustrating since I know I could continue my job from home. I would honestly quit my job and wouldn't mind the job search again.

At what age as an EA did you marry, if at all? I find myself devoted to my career which leaves little time for a romantic relationship, especially during Covid. Hoping there is some balance to be found in this role!

Hi guys

This question may not be related. However I wanted to know from personal and family point of view how it is like to relocate from India and live abroad .
Let's say Family consists of husband , wife and a kid . I understand we will get good facilities, education, cleanliness , good air etc , however I wanted to check whether people gel up easily in the new environment? Don't they feel loneliness/ difficult to adjust? Do they look for similar asian nationalities to kill boredom?

A guy who is claiming to be in love with me (a black woman and immigrant), is a conservative (pro-trump, anti-gun laws, denies that there is racism etc). Are those red flags to make me cut him off?

Any dads out here? Wife is 20 weeks pregnant with our first and want to connect and know from fellow dads on how are they coping. How are you helping your partner? Feel I am not doing enough. Except for getting ready with the finances.

Pregnant moms, feel free to provide suggestions on what your partner is doing which you really appreciate. I got the foot massage part covered. 😉

Can we show unequal rent split up between husband & wife for HRA?
Let's say we pay 20k in rent. I want to show that I pay 15k and wife can show 5k. Is this sort of break up possible without explicitly mentioning it in the rent agreement?

My bf has asked me to help him quit the ecigs and told me he’ll probably hide them from me but he wants me to take them. So I have for the past week. He really only keeps them in his pocket, 1 drawer

I just had to send my husband away in an ambulance. I’m not allowed to go with him or even go to the hospital. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even be there for my husband.

I guess I'll try my luck out... Isn't the ideal thing to have the passion and romance of teenagers, but with the maturity and experience of adults? Hopefully I could find someone here that has that mindset.

This bowl has been quiet and I see partners commenting on odd posts around fishbowl so I figure you need more fodder: partners, did any of you have parents that travelled as much as you do?

First year post my consulting exit and I’m dreading the inevitable dwindling of my points… is this what separation anxiety feels like

Anyone here adopt a puppy during the infertility struggle? Husband and I considering it to have something positive throughout this situation and thinking the extra companionship would be helpful. I work from home. Husband has had many family dogs and lots of experience with it, I’ve had a family cat before. But not sure if it’s actually a good idea - wondering if it would truly help make us feel better and keep our minds off of the struggles or if it would just add extra stress. Thoughts?

What's the hardest part of being a working parent in law? My wife and I are considering trying to get pregnant.

Stupid Question- We have been thinking for IVF and trying to understand with this process, is there any difference in the health and life of the child as compared to a child born without IVF. I did ask this with our doctor and he said casually its all same. This is not to question any doctor but just to really understand what is going to be different with the kid. This is not very old technology and not much studies as well.

I am new to United Silver and I purchase economy tickets. Is the best strategy to check in exactly 24 hours ahead and switch my seat to an open economy plus seat?

Share your company name in comments if you are a business analyst in banking domain

Any one here from HCL Bangalore working DBS project as a L2 Enginner?

M here.

Anyone for catch up and explore good places evening or tomorrow?

Looking for a great Chicago restaurant for our anniversary in a few months. Would be awesome if we could try a Michelin star restaurant, but trying to keep the whole meal under $250 as we just bought a house. Not sure if that’s doable. Open to any recommendations!

Hi fishes,
I was wondering if I put down my resignation now. And in case after a few weeks I decide to stay back, can I withdraw my resignation?

What would be ideal salary for i grade with 11 years of experience at BNYM corporate IT BU?

Hello! I’m looking for study materials for the PHR. Does anyone have recommendations for cost effective resources or perhaps willing to part with your study materials?

How different do your two professional recommendations need to be? I’ve worked for two years under the same management because of mutual trust. Any other recommendations would be dated or worse.

I have a offer 18lpa and my company infosys is giving me onsite in a period of next 6 months and it is in written mail with program manager should i consider it?

Hi, can anyone refer me at the federal reserve?

What’s the thought that keeps you from giving up?

Any consultants from Deloitte who can help to staff in a healthcare project? I’ve worked with healthcare clients for 10 years and relatively new to the firm.

Can anyone speak to the analytics team within HIA at PwC? Good capability, culture, and people overall? Considering a move.

Weekend Shift Differential- I’m trying to get market data on shift differential pay for weekend work in the IT department. I wasn’t able to find any recent articles for the private sector. Our comp data vendor won’t have pay practices on this until next March. I’m curious on what companies are paying for the differential and the methodology in determining the rate or % of salary.

Guys.. Please help..
- Jpmc(28 fixed + 8-10% Variable bonus) bangalore
- Deloitte India (28 fixed + 1.5 joining bonus) Gurgaon
- Current company (bofa) retaining with 45% now and 20% in end year (total ~28 fixed only).

CC: bofa
Yoe: 6
Current location: Dehradun/Gurgaon

Should I accept ans retain in the same company??
Please help

Hey I am looking for HR generalist profile in Pune.
I have 6 years of experience in same field.

Hi Folks, I am from Mumbai, India. An HR professional with 17 years of experience across Talent acquisition, Business partnering, Automation (ATS) tools, senior stakeholders and team management.
I wanted to check what would be the approx. salary range for a similar experienced professional across companies in Germany / Singapore / Vietnam / other European countries?
An understanding of the basic, variable bonus, ESOPs and other components details will be extremely helpful. Thanks.

Hi fishes,
How many of you have an MBA in HR. And how important an MBA in HR is to excel in the field of HR. Because I'm pretty mba in Marketing isn't that important to get you a Marketing job.

Got couple of openings for HR professionals in India . Middle to Senior level . IM me with your CV if keen. Thanks

I am an HR professional from last 5 years, now I want to switch to work day HCM. Please connect if you are hiring, I am ok to start as freshers.

Regards

Hi Folks,

I am planning to do SAP HR sucessfactor and AIHR course full academy one. Are they good? Does they have practical applications? I have 7 yrs of experience in HR Operations and Recruitment in Delhi, India.

Hello Everyone!

Can someone guide which is the best platform to apply for jobs in foreign countries for Indians ?
Preferably HR Jobs

any fresher opening in HR for my brother. He is post graduate in MBA HR

HR professionals,
If you could immediately acquire any new skill, what would it be? If you're comfortable doing so, tell us why.

Hi Fishes, a friend of mine is looking for an entry level job in Talent, she has great communication skills and knowledge of psychology as she has completed her Master's in Psychology. She also has a certification from NCERT in Guidance and Counselling. Can anyone please help?

Does anyone know about opportunities for HR Manager (Business Partner) role in Delhi/ncr? I have a strong referral who is currently working with KPMG India.

Hi Fishes,
I have been asked to resign after declaring my pregnancy at office, stating lack of funds. I work for reputed not for profit organisation. I am completing 5 months pregnancy. How should I tackle this situation? What should I do?

Hi I was interviewed by Capgemini in December 2021 and surprisingly they called in February 2022 for second round.

1. When can i expect call from hr?
2. I was thinking it is not genuine as they did not had clarity for which they were interviewing me. However in both round people who interviewed had email id with domain of Capgemini.

Did it happened with anybody else?

Please guide.
Thanks

My company has given me a promotion without a raise. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?

Little background:

Asked for promotion in late 2020 - was required to skill up, after skilling up, asked again about when I'll be promoted and was denied because there is no "vacancy" for it.
Got my annual hike in Oct 2021 without the promotion. I asked HR last week again and got a random announcement email saying my promotion is w.e.f Oct 2021. ( and no raise for the newly promoted role).

Hi,
I'm looking for an HR role in India. I'm an MBA -HR graduate and currently working as a PMO analyst.

Hi fellow HR's,

I am looking for referral in Google, Can someone help me get referred for open position in new Pune center? I have 3 YOE in IT/Banking ops recruiting, recruitment operations and HR operations.

Thanks in advance!!

Looking for Change in career! Have 8.4 years in HR functions (Talent Advisor and Business Partner). Notice 60 days. Please suggest.

Hi All, I want to upgrade my skills/knowledge in Payroll/Comp & Benefits area. Can anyone suggest good online course for the same. That would be really helpful. Thanks 🙏🙏

Hello Everyone,

Can anyone please share the ideal/optimum salary for a HR Operations Specialist with 2.8 YOE?

Hello HR professionals,
Can someone advice me with some professional HR system for recruitment.
Thank you