A question for the guys: was this a date?! Ran into a guy I knew in college at a bar, he technically asked me out (“we should get drinks sometime” etc), then paid for my drink. But as we were saying bye, it felt kinda platonic? Like just a hug and “good seeing you.” Or is he not interested? How often do you kiss on a first date?

Any ladies here married to a younger man? I am currently dating a man 1.5 years younger and am wondering if there is anything I should be worried about for the future.

Just moved to Chicago. How is the lesbian dating scene here? Love to connect with ladies based in Chicago

Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽

How’s the desi dating going during quarantine? Anyone stuck with their bf/gf? Any new revelations?

Would you accept 5000 dollars for a fantasy kink play with someone whom you are not attracted to (but someone decent looking & young)?

Any single folks on here?

Trying to decide between a sweetheart table or a head table. We will have 16 total including myself and my soon to be husband. 4 out of the party have a date who may not know folks. Any advice?

Best way to meet people in the Bay? Early 30’s. Been here a month and don’t know anyone.

I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

Anyone want to go on a date today 32/F

I had higher expectations for this bowl. You’re in your 30’s/40’s and looking for a hookup? 😒

I talked to a close platonic friend (an F) from college after a long time today. Got me thinking that the level of comfort I have always had with desi Fs will never be matched by Fs I’ve dated here.

28F looking to move to SD in the next 6 months from DC and wondering what dating in San Diego is like?

Just wondering. I make a decent middle class salary but do list my occupation as lawyer on OLD. I'm worried that someone I'm dating wants me more for my income potential than my personality. Any ways to tactfully address this? I'm not cheap but will probably not make near 6 figures for a while. I'm male dating female btw. Just wondering if people have experience with this

Actually starting to think I’ll be single forever. The apps go nowhere. How are you guys meeting people right now?

My friend invited me to hang out with her and her friends because I was feeling very sad about my breakup. Three of her friends end up hitting on me and just really invading my personal space. I honestly thought they had a joke or game of some sort. I tell my friend it makes me uncomfortable because it’s not something I’m looking for atm. She says I should take it as a compliment, but the only thing I feel is disgust that I now have to look forward to guys only wanting me for my body 😔

30/M going to be in NYC during the week next week and it would be great to grab a nice drink with any lady 🐠!

How do younger Females feel about dating or getting into a relationship with older people, age gap 5-6 years 🤔

Genuine responses

Looking for casual 1-1 sex. Male 32 here any female interested can DM.
No suggestions No judgment needed.
Thanks

Has anyone taken/ hold Snow CIS-Risk & Compliance cert? If so, what was ROI for your career (exam $, study hrs, career uplift/branding)? Looking to take a CIS cert soon and debating between 2 CIS exam I have competencies in (CSA, CIS).

What companies are not in a hiring freeze? I'm looking for my next marketing role and it would be helpful to know of companies still hiring. Thanks!

Any Navy / MC aviation bros in here?

Has anyone worked for Branch after coming from a larger carrier? How do you like it?

How long does it take to get used to the pace and expectations of MBB? Just started my first project this week and felt like I got my rear kicked.

Has anyone left a perm opportunity to join Meta in a contract role?

How was the experience? Did you regret it?

Good places to rent in London (lol) for someone that keeps typing 'London' in Zoopla and hoping for the best...

Jim Cramer tweeted today that NOW is the time to be bullish and he’s “never been more certain of anything in my life”…sooo yea we’re going to crash hard. Hold on everyone! Or actually no sell everyone!

Any business analyst here working in wipro for a europe client ?hows the wlb and job security for band b3 and salary for your YOE?

Do non-profits have community managers? How different is the work compared to a for-profit?

What are some of the good questions to ask after a PM interview to a Sr. Dir of PM? Moving to higher role so looking for some advice on how to create best impressions. I generallask questions around vision of the product, major challanges faced by the team and 1-2 things about the product itself.

Quick question: how do you feel about asking for compensation when recruiters reach out via LinkedIn messages instead of waiting until the introductory call?!

Finally got my new professional title approved! It took almost as long as my background check (3 weeks).

I’m planning on sharing more content for the members to consume, what kind of things would help you out - courses, podcasts, general news, or Q&A sessions conducted by me with more industry professionals over Zoom etc. ?

Can someone private message me about the difference between writing H1 and H2 SEO copy vs H1-1 and H1-2 SEO copy. I am confused.

Anyone else finding it difficult adjusting to no traveling every week when you live alone?

Hi fishes, where can I find payslip in hcl portal

I ate one biscuit out of a big packet that belonged to my roommate and he said things like “it’s so tough to get these biscuits” etc. The thing is that I would have never said that to him. I’ve told him that as long as it’s in the kitchen, don’t ask me before eating. He also constantly keeps asking me to switch off the kitchen and bedroom lights. Is my being annoying justified?

How you do you get over trust issues from a previous ex and trust your current SO? My ex cheated on my for months and I caught her by going through her phone and I find myself fighting that urge to go through my current SO’s phone even though I have no reason to.

I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

All our boy friends in common keep telling me that he has a crush on me but yesterday when we were hanging out with some friends and they asked him about his crush he said " I don't know I think maybe I liked a boy instead of a girl". That made me confused is there something wrong I'm doing? Does he think I'm boyish or is that a common teasing technique ?

Where are single men looking for single ladies these days? Tinder/hinge and other swipe apps seems to be flooded by onlyfan-ers which is fine (you do you boo) but not something i am looking for in a potential partner.

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

Is it true that a guy never notices another guy but notices all the girls? My boyfriend and I just had a discussion about how he does not notice any guys in the gym but notices all the girls. When I tried to put forward my argument saying I notice both guys and girls so it should be the same case for him. He said it’s not the same for the guys. Can I get any male opinion on this or even female if they have experienced something similar in their relationship? Thanks!

My boyfriend and I already live together (I moved into his 1BR apartment this year), and we’re excited to get a new place together in early 2023. Any practical tips on how to decide what furniture to keep vs. replace? We’re still renting, so I’m inclined to just keep what we have. What pieces are worth buying new now vs. holding off until we have a more permanent place?

Reading Untamed by Glennon Doyle and I want my own Abby!!! Sigh.....

Any advice on how to do an organized shared family calendar? My wife and I want to get more sophisticated than a calendar on the fridge. Would love to link to Outlook w/out sharing each other’s work meetings. How do you manage this with your partner?

Got out of a toxic relationship that I KNOW was toxic but my heart is still heavy and I want him back. Did anyone experience this? How did you overcome it?

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

For those of you who are married, how much did you spend on your wedding and was it worth it? Looking back, what are the things you realized didn’t matter / wasn’t worth the spend?