A regular came in and jokingly said he didn't like my nail polish color. I didn't want to take his comment and said I didn't need his validation. He said, in response, "I didn't deserve that. I was joking with you." Like what would you have said in that situation? How do you handle out-of-pocket jokes or insults from regulars?

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Haha good for you! People think they can treat you like $hit without any consequences. It's good for them to be proven wrong sometimes.

I’ve received a few backhanded compliments from my coworker, and if they say something like that, the best response would probably be “Okay, well I like it!” It’s worked for me so far.

My response is always “good thing they are my nails not yours” usually they chuckle and leave it at that. LOL I'm not the one who takes it seriously.

Depends on my mood.

If I’m in a good mood: “We all have our preferences. It’s my favorite color!” And move on.

In a no-bs mood: Can you explain how that’s a joke? I don’t get it.

In a mean mood: It’s my dead grandma’s favorite color.

I would say something like this. “I understood it to be that you were criticizing me. But if it was a joke, please explain to me what is funny about your joke?”

Nothing, or another joke. Me and some old guy would throw joke insults at each other the whole time he was in the store. Oh well, that's just me.

I keep it professional and brush it off and continue with my process because you’re representing a company, not yourself.

I'll just let it pass if I am in a good mood. If not, then silent treatment would be great. Well, not really great if you are working in this field. Lol

I'd say, "Are we close enough for you to make a joke like that?" Of course, I won't say it out loud. Haha

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