Anyone else ever make a relationship contact? Think BBT. Both parties want certain things. Both want to show their serious. I proposed writing it in a contract.

How do you convince your SO to accompany you to Varsity to tick it off your ATL bucket list??

Does anyone regret having a second kid? Did it make working in advertising completely untenable?

I tried to break up with my SO and instead they talked their way out of it for an hour and we're now on a "break" that involves the same amount of contact as before so not really sure what i accomplished

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

I’ve 90 min for ELA & 6 kids. I need to teach phonics, curriculum (has 0 phonics), & goals & they need freq. breaks. Admin’s making me use said curric. Any ideas?? Small groups and rotate? TIA!

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

I’m halfway through virtual parent teacher conferences. How are your conferences going and how are you sharing student work with parents?

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

If I get married to someone not a US national while my greenvard is processing, how does it impact my spouse’s ability to join me in the US?

What are some thoughts that get you out of your breakup sadness zone? I need to borrow them.

1. Have a better life than the one you imagined with him
2. Build a big life. Being rich and famous solves everything.
3. Mind your business. Be the main character in your story.

One of ex’s friends who is I met twice, has been in touch, him and his wife, like commenting on some of my posts occasionally (we are just fb friends and IG friends). I never saw them since. Then the friend texts asking if I am seeing someone and that he wants to set me up with someone. He felt awkward doing that, I thanked him for thinking of me, but then he said we all told your ex he is an idiot for letting you go and they asked my ex it they could still be touch with me and he said yes.

Moving to the city finally (vs commuting from CT) any f fish in their 20s or 30s looking to make new friends??

I have to tell my parents that I got engaged this weekend. They haven’t been taking the coming out well over the last year (i.e have isolated themselves from their community, screaming and crying when I’m on the phone with mom, dad hasn’t spoken to me since July). I’m incredibly nervous about this conversation. Going to have it in about two hours. Any words of advice?

I’m hoping to steer clear of any scams by posting & I know it’s been posted before but, again, scams. Anyway, I am looking for something that can be done remotely on nights and weekends after I get home from my daily in-office job. My sister passed away & I’m now helping raise her kids. With Christmas coming, I’m nervous and dreading the season not only to not have her but will I make it a happy one for the kids. I need extra income but need to be home with them in the evenings.

Does anyone have any ideas on an app to use for communicating with parents? I've googled so much and there are so many. Any thoughts would be helpful, but keep in mind I am a Preschool teacher!! Thanks in advance 😁

My mother is considering moving back to Korea...

I've been building a side project with my friend, but they're not putting in as much effort as I am. We've been friends since we entered college together, but it's starting to become too much. Should I talk to them about it?

I think teaching on line was more work than face to face learning but I am willing to learn new skills for a new normal that helps keep families safe. However, do you think that for the future a combination of the two will work best for our students especially in light of how our society is heavily information based?

Should I take loan on my 401k to complete 20% down payment for home that I am buying or should I just go with 5% down payment and pay mortgage insurance?

Any insight on when hiring for FAAS west will start again?

All - what do you guys tip on a haircut? I have two places I go to one charges 25 and just an average cut. While the other is $50 but they wash hairs and all.

Can anyone help me with ECTC with JPMC for 602 grade.
Even a range would help.

Tech- React
YOE-8+
CCTC-15lpa

They have agreed for 25 fixed. Not sure if that is good enough.

Most obscure game you’ve played?

Any thoughts on the best certifications to get in order to help move forward? I have considered the CCP from World at Work, but it’s fairly pricey to get by the time you wrap up everything. I was looking at both SHRM-CP and SPHR. Everyone that I have spoken to has the SHRM, but that’s also only looking at individuals in a small geographic footprint and within 3-4 different companies. I was hoping to get some thoughts on this from others? Thanks

Hi. I was made redundant from Zendesk in August and looking for my next role. Im looking for a Senior Recruiter or Lead Recruiter role in Dublin Ireland. The market seems difficult for inhouse roles. Anyone looking for someone with my skillset?

How is the ViSa nyc office ? Any perks for employees ?

Kab tak aayega yaar yeh appraisal

Do citi pune provide Diwali gifts?

Any idea where is Google's Pune office is coming up??? I mean exact location?

P.S. I have made rent agreement in Kharadi side now I am tensed about if the office is tooo far.

I am looking for a job change in forensics department- fraud and investigation, e-discovery. Please recommend me for any openings!

Is it normal for Managers have to take on roles both as a Senior and a Manger at the same time due to shortage in PA. Im at a midtier and a lot of my jobs don’t have Seniors and Partners don’t want to delay these jobs.

If I take a job at Amazon in India, is it considered as prestigious to FAANG companies as Amazon in Silicon Valley?

Hi Everyone,

Looking for Mobile or Web Automation testing openings in Kochi or Trivandrum.

Total Exp : 6.6yrs

Can someone help me on this

Thanks

How’s the work life balance and work culture at qualys? Have an offer of Senior manager IT team . YOE 13 , IIM MBA .

Experience - 15+ years.
Current CTC - 30Lakhs P.A

I have offers from IBM - 28.5 Lakhs P.A. and HCL - 39 Lakhs P.A.

IBM HR mentioned I can negotiate further once I share HCL offer letter which I am yet to receive.

Can you guys please assist if IBM matches HCL which one I can choose? TIA

Searching for power and utilities consulting opportunities and renewable energy. Please get in touch

Who according to you is the best standup comedian ever?

I'd love to see stats on divorce rates in NYC Big Law vs. general population

Callback consisted of five back-to-back interviews with exclusively white men. No thanks.

Q’s for hiring partners and recruiters - you know that most associates quit their managing attorneys and not the firm/case. I’m in that boat. What do I say to a prospective employer about the situation of why I want to jump ship?

Very brief background - I’m a senior associate who has been on one complex commercial litigation case for over a year. Over time, the relationships between attorneys on the case have deteriorated to the point that it is affecting my productivity/work. I want out.

What are people doing with their student loans now that interest is paused? Is it better to keep paying them off or to invest/save the money?

Can I waive into other UBE jurisdictions using my NY UBE license at any time? Or is there an expiration date for my bar exam score, after which point I won't be able to waive in?

I’m worried I made a huge mistake lateraling. I was really unhappy at my last firm and made a move for slightly better QOL and better work. But it’s so hard to start remotely and get to know new personalities. Does anyone have any tips or positive stories to share?

Are people continuing to work if they have the symptoms of COVID-19 but not yet bad enough to be hospitalized? Curious how accommodating firms are being on that front.

I have a law student shadowing me tomorrow. Do I just have her watch as I answer emails, draft MSJ, etc ?

Worst stories about leaving your firm to go elsewhere? How did the old firm take it

Has anyone gone from BigLaw to a mid tier firm in their city? Any noticeable differences or just more of the same, esp around:
- Wk/life balance and expectations
- Quality of work
- Culture
- Opportunities and progression

Anyone here work in-house and sit in an open office environment? I sit next to accounts receivable and some marketing folks and can’t focus even with earplugs in. Any advice would help.

What’s the fastest/youngest you’ve ever seen someone make partner?

Why did you decide to leave your first firm job? If you had a chance to jump ship but stayed, why did you stay?

Has anyone else noticed that a hugely disproportionate number of latinx big law attorneys seem to be white / white-passing?

Best approaches to get my partners to help with my push to partnership? Appraisal meeting coming up soon.

Want to negotiate salary at an AMLAW200 firm in atlanta. Not a lot of public information about what peer firms (ie, not NY lockstep firms matching cravath scale) pay. What are mid-senior level associates making in Atlanta?

How hard is it to work and be a first year law student? Is this possible?

What was the most useful CLE you have taken?

How big is your firm and what does your attorney retreat look like?