Breaking down in real time - canceling meetings in a panic, paralyzed into not being able to get any work done, unable to speak coherently to clients... never felt so unstable until covid

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Is the same Manager who ate 500 mg of edibles and then gave a presentation?

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It's all going to be okay. This too shall pass. You'll be alright and the way you're feeling is okay and normal.

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I’m feeling exactly the same way. It’s not like I never questioned my ability before but I had such confidence. Every day seems like a struggle now.

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I am really sorry to hear this. Your feelings are very valid in this environment. Is there someone you can talk to, or maybe take a day off? Or maybe a therapist you can talk to?

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You need an SSRI. Talk to a doctor.

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What is this?

how are you doing?

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Want and need to quit so bad but it's a death sentence in this economy I feel

I feel the same. I've been trying to center myself and meditate using my Fitbit's relaxation thing. It's helped some but I still have had a lot of difficulty sleeping so I'm going to order some melatonin.

Please take a medical leave or at minimum a week of sick days. Reset. You deserve it.

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