Can infatuation last for years?
I have feelings for a girl since last couple of years. Always trying to talk to her and be connected with her. But I also badly want to have sex with her. I mean I get those kind of thoughts as well. Is it infatuation and not love? Is it a bad thing?

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Men in their prime age will always think about sex. That's how it is.

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Men at any age will- suppressing them due to socio-cultural reasons is another point of discussion

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Let me tell you this honestly — men & women are designed in a different way .. for men , having sex is like Having your breakfast - soon it’ll be lunch & you’ll eat again .. hence it’s completely ok about you feeling the same .. that said - if have you sex and for the first time - you’ll enjoy it the most (that’s lust/infactuation) .. if you crave for her post the first time , second time and endlessly to be intimate with her by still being non judgmental that’s love- your emotional connect with that person makes it so much more enjoyable when you love her - for me that’s the litmus test !

Sex is super important for someone whom you’re in relationship with ! Good boy stories will just go down the drain !

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Well said. There's a difference b/w being nice & being lame. Being good guy isn't the issue, being lame without self respect is. Men should eventually evolve to think beyond lust, & have more control over things & ppl around.
Once that is achieved, it's hard for anyone to use & throw.

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I guess it's normal but still thinking much about it only hamper you..

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