Career-wise, how can one prepare (if at all) if they are expecting to have a kid?

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Prepare to give yourself grace

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This! Recgnize it’ll be different

Great question! My wife and I went through both of our companies insurances and calculated what would be the cheapest. You are stuck with insurance, unless for a major event, for the whole year so planning at least one year in advance helps the wallet.

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