Do a lot of you actually have people you know and love who love you back to go to when you get depressed? Part of this for me has been feeling dead inside. I don’t feel a connection to anyone or thing

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My partner left me for a friend, but it wasn’t until I told people how much it impacted me that I saw how many people were there to help me through it no matter how miserable I was to be around. I’m going to try to be far more honest about how I’m doing going forward, including with myself - friends don’t know to rally around you unless you share some of yourself and how you’re doing with them. I’m lucky to have them. And to be rid of him.

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When your actual social connections don’t match what you *want* in social connections... depression almost always follows. Take positive and small steps to establish and nurture social connections.

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Part of getting to those people isn’t feeling the connection, it’s trusting that it’s there even if you don’t feel it, imo. So I’ll go to someone not because I feel I need to, but I know it’s best

We’re here!

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