Do I let my kid win on purpose to make games more fun for them?
It boosts their confidence, but am I teaching bad habits for the future?

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Crush them

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Make it close, let them work for it and don’t always let them win otherwise they’ll never ‘git gud’ also show them how to behave when they loose so they don’t rage etc lots of valuable skills to taught here

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Mix it up. They need to learn how to win and lose

Nah crush them and hear their lamentations

I grew up losing at competitive tennis, got disciplined when I acted up, eventually learned how to take a loss with grace (not always, but mostly). When I started winning I appreciated it so much more, and showed solid empathy to whoever I beat. I think if you manage expectations and put things in perspective, the confidence and maturity will come, no need to fake a win.

Children learn by example - teach them how to both win and lose gracefully. Once they have learned these valuable skills.... Bury them 😈

Crush them while you can, soon they'll be schooling you.

I like to ask the kid if they want to play in learning/training mode or competitive mode and then smoke em when they say competitive mode

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