Ex reached out after ~5 months to talk. This is the second time, and both times I’ve said no I’ll let him know when I’m ready. I don’t think he wants to get back together, but my guess is he wants to share some processing from post breakup. I don’t think talking is good for my peace (I’m not 100% there but doing relatively ok from the breakup) but it makes me sad to hear from him, I keep thinking about it and I’m slightly curious what he has to say

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If he doesn’t want to get back together, and you still do, there’s no point in talking because it’ll only cause you more pain to once again hear he doesn’t want you. If it makes you sad to hear from him, then it doesn’t sound like you’re ready to talk yet. You could just ask him if there something he wanted to talk about, but I wouldn’t personally.

Every ex I’ve had has done this a few months or years later and I’ve never understood the purpose unless it’s to try again.

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If you feel that having a conversation with your ex will not be beneficial to your calm and recovery, it is important to stick to your boundaries. Respect your feelings and needs and don't be disturbed by his connections.

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