Have you ever hit full-on burnout, like the kind that goes beyond stress and starts showing up physically? A couple of months ago, I was so overwhelmed with my accounts that I wasn’t sleeping, my chest felt tight constantly, and I even started getting migraines. I knew I needed to take a step back, but breaking the cycle felt impossible when deadlines didn’t stop. I’ve been trying to prioritize small things—like walks at lunch and actually logging off at a reasonable hour—but it’s a work in progress. Have you ever dealt with this? How did you pull yourself out of it? Would love to hear your tips.

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Burnout is all too common in this field, and honestly, sometimes the only real fix is stepping back. I had to take a week off and completely unplug to break the cycle—it felt drastic, but it worked. Now, I don’t wait until I’m completely overwhelmed. I schedule regular mental health days and limit how much work I take home, even if it means saying “no” more often. Deadlines will always be there, but your health won’t if you don’t protect it.

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I absolutely have. Working 80+ hrs/week. Not sleeping properly, living on coffee and snacks. Very little water. Never leaving my desk except for meeting. Trying to catch up on work at night and all weekend. Crying in my office because I hated my life. Mine manifested into vertigo and shingles. I was also the sole breadwinner for the family so the added stress of making sure I didn’t lose a job in an industry i was loathing was torture and I didn’t want to take sick leave because I felt the ramifications would cripple my career. Oddly I didn’t really want that career but didn’t really think I could do anything else. Who we work for has a lot of influence on the environment so if there’s a person that’s setting the tone know that there are other great companies and people out there.
Congrats on finding small ways to start this change for yourself. The walks are amazing at clearing your mind. Nutrition is also key - it was for me. Either we set boundaries, walk away or get let go (purposefully) to regain our perspective and peace. And our health. I’d be happy to chat if you want. This industry needs to support their people more.

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I had really bad burnout to the point of having to find a new job and go into therapy. It took me well over a year to recover and I still see signs of it today years later. It is a real issue that people trivialize way too much. Please take care of yourself, everyone.

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Thankfully I was in therapy and my therapist put me on medical leave - I spent the leave functioning on a minimal level but it did give me the space to start digging myself out of the hole. I was able to leave the job but 1 year later I would say I’m still only about 50% recovered and I’ll be feeling the repercussions for years to come. A few days or a week off here or there wont do much of anything to combat burnout - studies show it’s a 2-3 year recovery process IF you’re able to fully relax and recuperate. Somehow still haven’t found a job that’s willing to go let me stare at trees in the wilderness for 2 years to fully heal 🙃

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Good lord. And for what. A couple forgettable ad campaigns and maybe a few awards that will gather dust on a shelf. There should be real stakes involved in the work for a person to take this much damage in doing it.

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Yes, burnout hit me hard a few years ago. I was juggling too many high-pressure accounts, and it started affecting my sleep and appetite. I ended up talking to my manager about redistributing some of the workload, and they were surprisingly understanding.

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Totally. I think people often focus on the mental/emotional effects of burnout but don't spend nearly enough time focusing on the physical manifestations. Stress is the biggest killer, I really think so. It affects sleep, nutrition, exercise, and those things also affect stress. It's an endless cycle. We need a complete overhaul of our work culture if we want to reduce chronic inflammation and the many autoimmune diseases that are caused by this

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Honestly, I feel like I’ve kinda just been living in a state of burnout the last few years. Have just done my best to adjust to it as the new normal and push through, while making big efforts to learn to manage anxiety. Heard a great quote the other day - nothing is ever as good, or as bad, as it seems.

Spring last year is when it all caught up to. Was to the point where it was majorly effecting my health, my home life, I was either grumpy or tired all the time. I got to the point where it just wasn’t working, I decided to look for a new job and get a kind of fresh start. Best thing I ever did and now it is just a matter of not slipping back into the road to burn out.

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