Heartbreak... Got involved with a colleague and it ended by him pinging let's not msg until I say, it's been 15 days and he is very rude now.
I feel he'll make sure my snapshots are impacted too.
He is an exit level scon and I am an exit level con.

It feels like a loss, mental peace and emotional stability is nowhere to be found. I think I need therapy rn.

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Don't worry, I don't think just because of your personal things, he will ruin your snapshot, even if he is an exit level SCON, he will be answerable to your manager for the ratings given in the snapshot.

Try to get over him and once you have your mental peace, get things sorted. You both should show maturity to not let your personal relationships affect your work.

More power to you :)

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