Hello all, I'm doing IVF shortly (retrieval in May, and transfer in July). Fingers crossed I do get pregnant. BUT I MIGHT be up for Senior Manager at Accenture this year as well. My husband's pushing me to keep gunning for it and make it happen. I'm REALLY worried about the increased expectations/responsibilities if and when I get the promotion, not to mention the extra effort it takes leading up to it to keep proving yourself. Shouldn't I be turning it DOWN a notch instead of UP?? Thoughts?

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So they’ll make their decision in July, you won’t find out until Nov. plenty of time to let your body rest and chill out once you’re pregnant.

I made SM last year, had retrieval in Sept, transfer in Oct, found out I was pregnant the same day of my promotion in Nov.

If you’ve proved yourself over the last 2-4 years, and had a standout role this fiscal year you’re fine. Please don’t stress. PM me if you want to chat more

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Agreed! Up for partner at my firm this year, and relying on stellar past performance to take me through a potentially slow summer/fall.

Keep going and do what's right for you.

For me, IVF has been a long road and I don't want to put my professional life on hold. It took 4-6 months between meeting the REI to starting my first cycle because there's so many lab tests, scans, exams, etc. Then it's the monthly numbers game. I was really surprised because I had mistakenly thought that IVF was a very fast process. It's not magic!

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That’s a tough call ! Because you want to be as stress free as possible when doing IVF. I know for me the interview process alone would make me a ball of nerves ! Best of luck

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Go for it. Don’t take your foot off the gas! I just had a baby through IVF and on maternity leave and still trying for promo to try get director while still being on leave.

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Mind sharing your ages ?

I'm 36, he's 38

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