How has COVID impacted your kids over the last two-three years? I've watched my oldest transform into someone I don't recognize anymore. She's depressed but refuses to do therapy. I have no idea how to handle this. I think COVID, isolation, and everything in between really got to her.

Slowly coming to the realization that I’ll be single forever for personal reasons - 40 M no kids. Trying to figure out how to take care of myself in my 60s-90s and what to do now to be as self sufficient as possible. Any advice would be welcomed.

I feel like I'm going through really bad imposter syndrome, How do you manage it ?

My psychiatrist recommended for me to try Ritalin. I’ve been on Dexedrine for a few months, and I’m not really having negative side effects.

Is she a pill mill, or is it worth fixing something that’s not broken?

Pandemic induced pressure & burnout. Is every agency bad at present? Desperate to move on before it kills me but worried it’s not diff anywhere else. Hearing people are off sick in lots of agencies.
Or does anyone have positive experiences to share?

People who lateraled during COVID: What did you do for the first two weeks? How did you make your presence known remotely to try and get assignments?

Does anyone have intel on signing bonus amounts (apart from Covid and year-end) for mid-level litigation associates? The move would be to a V10 firm. Thanks!

Does anyone else feel like their social skills went down during the pandemic? My new anxiety makes retail so hard.

I want to buy colored contact lens. No eye /vision issues . How do I go about it

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Anybody taught “A Long Walk to Water” for 6th grade? We just adopted it and I need some suggestions to get my kids to understand the whole new culture it introduces to them.

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

Have you ever been racially discriminated against in a personal healthcare situation/not at work? While you were ill or in the hospital? Obviously horrible when it happens to anyone but it takes the cake for me when white people in healthcare discriminate about Black people when they don't know they work in the same field and know how they should be treated.

How to broach taking time during the day for Ramadan for myself as a junior consultant - on a COVID related engagement so I’m reluctant if it’ll be received well...
Also how much time is okay to ask for?

How do you know if you have good hygiene? my ex told me I don’t

This is my routine:
- I have curly hair, can only wash it once a week/put dry shampoo if needed
- I brush my teeth 2 times a day
- Wear deodorant / perfume every day (my way, and good girl) and shave off any hair (I did laser but still), as much as possible. Some days, I cannot keep up with shaving (especially if it won’t show)
- I wear pantyliners and change it once a day/ change panties once a day
- I shower my body every day

I'm in Orlando. Workout 4-5 times a weak. Big on most outdoor things and playing PC games. Also guns, cause Florida

Tips for staying healthy and human while studying for the CPA and working during Busy Season!?!? Do you meal prep, plan your week, have a study buddy? I want to get organized!

Anyone on straterra? Starting week 4 on it and have not noticed much, but I have zero appreciate and have food aversions. Would be interested to know how people deal with this / if it actually helped? I know it takes some time to see the effects,

Anyone go to VIDA in ballston? Is it worth the $?

What is the tipping etiquette on the free platinum breakfast in a JW Marriott? The server just gets coffee / orange juice and you serve yourself. It is an overpriced buffet that I would never dine in.

I got pre-approved for Amex platinum and chase sapphire reserve. I applied for the reserve and got rejected a few months ago. Should I try platinum or wait?

Please help. What's the best mobile app to track H1B Petition approval status

How much can I ask for expected salary for devops. In Lisbon Portugal, for 10y experience, India having 28l

Accenture right now ☝🏼

We bought a property and the house next door fence post is on our property line. We’re planning on putting a fence on our vacant lot. What do we do about the fence post? Since no one owns the house? It was foreclosed on and I think a bank owns it now.

Hi Everyone..
Currently given Interview for devops role at tavisca.
Total exp.: 3
CTC: 7.5 lkh

Had few doubts :
1. How is work related to devops and cloud ?
2. Since the tavisca is taken over by JPMC , are all policies and benefits are now applicable to current tavisca employees ?
3.Also if someone can share about pay / bonus / salary structure ( i would discuss this with HR once i clear all rounds )

People with good hold on FreeRTOS and ESP-IDF please ping me. Job openings at Safran Aerospace.

Why do 403b have such I fees? I almost want to stop contributing all together or just minimum 6% to meet the match. Possibly just rely on the pension but what if it’s underfunded when I retire?

Everyone I needed final approvals from to get these expert retention agreements signed off has decided to ignore me on literally the day our disclosures are due.

Anyone know if any Toronto firms are hiring associates to work fully remote?

Has anyone been able to get into BCG without an MBA? I would be at the PL level, coming from a Big4 firm.

Hi fishes,
I am looking for remote opportunities in SDET QA Automation. Please let me know if there are opportunities at your company!!!
YOE : 4

I need one like to start chats. Appreciate your help

People with One Medical,

Is it really worth the $200 ? If so, why ?

Hello Fishes,

Can somebody please refer me for the following Job ID: req367550 in HoneyWell.

Years of Exp: 3+

Skills: Tableau, SQL, BigQuery, Python, Google sheets

Thank you

Oracle job status : screening means?

Anyone have any recommendations on books to read or YouTube series for learning system design/architecture from scratch?

So I work for a small company as a SEM/Director… which in my world just means I am really Lead Developer, Part BA and part product owner as well as reviewing the devs. I came up in this company starting at about SE3 of 5 so the position is just kind of what I made it. I have recently been getting interest from some larger companies like Amazon. Long preamble to ask, what are the day to day responsibilities/expectations of an SEM at a FAANG?

Has anyone recently worked on a soc2 audit? Any good resources you recommend?

How much of a paycut should I expect going from Strategy & Analytics Manager to Product Manager? (First PM Job). Almost at the final stage with a startup of about 50 people (Series A). Recruiter said feedback have been positive and I have one last meeting with the head of engineering remaining for overall fit interview tomorrow. I’m preparing just in case there’s an offer at the end of the week. Currently making 180k base if you need more context. Have a semi technical background as well

I spent 2 years as an SE at my current company and was offered a job at the same company to lead our tech partnerships. I was pumped about the role and increased my OTE by 20%.

After 4 months, the culture of this team is entirely different than sales. My manager micromanages me, is out of touch, and threatened me for having passion projects outside of work.

Do I stick it out and deal with the anxiety, move on from the company I love, or take an AE job that is on the table and blow it up?

My marketing people - does anyone else's company have a dedicated "Marketing Response Team" (MRT Team)? Or something similar? Might be called something else at other companies and I just have no clue.

If I move to the Bay Area from Austin, are there any major negatives that will be really hard for me?

Anyone ever get a job offer at a new company and tell their current boss before accepting/leaving?

Hey y'all, kind of a two part question:
1. I enjoy the people management more than individual contributor stuff. What career paths do you see in our industry for people who are managing support engineering teams?
2. What certifications are valued today? Seems like being a AWS Cloud Practitioner is a good general one, but are there others that stand out?

Why is it that when ever I look at “entry level” jobs in IT they always want 2-4 years of experience. It’s entry level that means maybe some certifications if they didn’t major in the field or a degree in the field. Not 2-4 years already working in the field. Can someone please explain this to me?

I am genuinely curious: What is it like interviewing as an experienced recruiter, for a recruiting position, with another recruiter?

I need a job, please can someone assist me ?

Looking to transition from an experineced(more than 7 years) automation and manual tester to a python full stack developer , looking for guidance about the path .... job market(including freelancing option) ,job position to target , potential struggles , courses or any other potential resources !
P.S. trying this change to as having a inclination towards development, and also see myself going for technical manager role in future !
Feel free to bust any myths , but plz avoid demotivate!

I started my first role as software engineer and I’m curious for other swe’s— what’s your annual salary increase (in terms of percentage)?

I am a Management Information Systems grad student from University of Memphis, with a cumulative experience of 5 years ( 2years - Quality Data Analyst, 3years - Human Resource Co-Ordinator). I'm looking out for Summer Intern'22 in and around companies in Memphis and Nashville, specifically looking for recommendations for applied positions in FedEx. Any leads will be graciously appreciated.

The creators of GIFs may be dead, but the debate about how to pronounce it is alive and kicking. I go with the hard G, like in Graphic. Votes?

If I take a job at Amazon in India, is it considered as prestigious to FAANG companies as Amazon in Silicon Valley?