How to deal with a dominant personality type ? Someone who tries to dominate you and the people around themselves and the situation

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Appear unfazed and non-reactive.

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Get the heck away. Life’s too short for p”ssing contests for no reason.

Dominate them, show them whose boss

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Would love some ideas as well. Tired of dealing with these types at work.

I treat them like when you let your lil cousins or siblings raise hell in a video game except their controller is off.

Set boundaries.

Piss in the office to establish your territory. If the person in question approaches the piss line, puff up and stand on your hind legs to make yourself appear as large as possible. If necessary, initiate a few bluff charges to see if they retreat. If all else fails, go to battle.

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