How to deal with loneliness? I've been single all my life and now it is hurting like hell. I need someone to talk to, to share my thoughts with. I can't talk to my parents all the time and about everything. I don't have any friends here too. Can't go for marriage right now due to some reasons. Always feeling depressed and lonely.
M-30

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Just imagine you have some "friends" and "partner" still u can't express ur feelings.
Trust me that's worse!!!

likefunny

Yes bro

I got this feeling when I was 29. I realised I was not having enough time for myself, just working. So i installed bumble. I felt weird with the kind of responses people give there. Side by side I was giving time to my hobbies and things that make me happy so I felt less lonely. So I deleted the app.

Later I installed shaadi.com which is even worse because of the exorbitant demands of the parents. Pathetic app.

Finally an elder suggested me to get married the old fashioned way. I wanted to get married to the right person so finally that happened in AM setup.

When I got married to her, I was fulfilled mentally, did not have a need to emotionally clinging to a person. So we rather complemented to each other then to be a burden or crying shoulder.

Life is sorted. I don't get the feeling of loneliness, because I don't keep my needs secondary anymore. I always focus on self growth like a madman and set goals for myself.

A lot of people say it is about marriage, they are wrong. Married people get loneliness too. I like to stay driven and having goals in my life and also take time to smell the roses. That made a huge difference.

Hope that helps you as well my friend .

Take care😊

likehelpful

Haha.you are well off without them. Kuch nahi rakha waha

like

Many people feeling same way....atlest you can find few of them here also...

sometime you learn with staying with current condition sometime you break...sometime bounce back

like

Learn to travel , experience the fun to cook, get a dog , travel with your dog - (many girls will fall for you ) 😎..

When you solo travel- you make new friends - may be you can have some “fun” too 😌 !!

Keep yourself engaged 😎

Edit : talk to ppl, try to find what you can learn from them - try enjoying the company of both guys and women ! The less you give judge - the better you feel accompanied 😍 cheers !

like

There is a need here to turn spiritual. This is the problem with all lonely
men especially who wants to stay free. It's been 10 years am staying alone. At some point this happened to me as well. Only solution is to upgrade yourself with new skills and explore the inner being with spirituality.

like

Just share your thoughts here

like

Indulge in fitness activities

Related Posts

I’m having a really hard time with my changing body. 13 weeks, I don’t have too many bad side effects of pregnancy or anything so I consider myself lucky (no nausea ever etc) but I’m depressed at work, my skin is completely broken out and showing new broken face capillaries, and I’m not showing a bump yet so I just feel fat and big. I don’t know where this “glow” is but I look in the mirror and literally am grappling with not recognizing myself :( it’s been impossible to find any clothes too.

like

Best shoes for lifting and running? Was thinking about picking up the Nike Metcon 5

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

likeuplifting

Seems like WFH will last forever given the new vaccine mandate that we all must be vaccinated to go in

like

Any gym recommendation in Central London that I can access with ClassPass? Ideally around Oxford street/ Euston

like

Where’s the best place to live if you’re looking to secure an entry-level position working in PE? Don't have a family, really kind of willing to try anywhere at this point.

like

I had a panic attack in a meeting today. I had no idea what to do and I feel like the others could tell something was wrong but it kept going. If you've had this, what do you do?

like

I need friends 🥺

like

My mom’s friend was supposed to come to my wedding in a week and just cancelled. I’ve never met her but my mom insisted she be invited. This person already sent us a check which we deposited already; we already sent a thank you card. This person left me a VM saying they were sorry they couldn’t come; they have leukemia and their Dr. didn’t approve. Do I need to call them back? I would like to avoid an awkward phone call about personal matterwith a stranger but also don’t want to be insensitive.

like

Love how i think... 'oooh haven’t been anxious in a while ’ then before bed I start to get anxious... 😩

like

Hi folks, need your help! Just found out that we’re pregnant (we were not actively trying so kinda surprised 🙈). What brand prenatal vitamins would you recommend? I’m seeing mixed suggestions on Folic vs. Folate - which one is important?

Please guide me and let me know if there is anything else I need to do at this moment. I’ve contacted my OB as well. I’m so worried. Thanks!

like

I think that I have eating disorder. I am always hungry but when I get food I can’t finish it, usually I am done after 2-3 bites and then I am hungry again after an hour. Anyone has similar issues? Have you been to a nutritionist or dietitian? If yes, is it covered by Insurance?

likehelpful

Can anyone offer advice for helping with adderall side effects? I was diagnosed a few months ago and I am new to medication. I have been taking 20 mg xr in the morning but have a terrible crash around 2/3pm each day where I just get very very tired. Doctor recommended 10mg ir mid day to combat but I still experience pretty severe fatigue as a side effect. Just wondering if anyone has found any natural strategies to cope or mitigate. Thanks!

like

How many of you are staying in a marriage where there’s lack of true love but there is comfort or kids or whatever else holding you back? I crave that love but it’s easier to just stay put than leave. Sigh

like

Been seeing a guy for the past few months. Went to watch a movie on Netflix last night and saw that my ex is in a new series. Talk about mood killer. Now I can’t stop thinking about him 😞
He tends to pop in to my head at least once a month. How can I move past this?

like

Any moms on here that absolutely love their company and feel 100% supported?

like

Anyone here struggle with drinking enough water every day? Growing up, I drank a lot of soda and fruit juices but since 2020, I’ve been trying to be one of those people who always has a water bottle. They say you drink some when you first wake up but I never have a taste for it and then never remember to start drinking until about noon.

Advice Needed!

Situation: Current US Citizen with girlfriend (International) who will be graduating in December and start OPT (1-year). Considering the following options for various reasons, any thoughts/oversights appreciated. Will also consult with a lawyer but wanted to get a gauge from those with experience. Cont.

like

Been with my GF since college and we recently hit the 4 year mark. 1-2 years into our relationship I found out she had instances of micro-cheating (flirting with guys, talking to ex’s etc - but nothing physical) and we addressed it. To her credit and my knowledge, she’s been apologetic and great at respecting boundaries since, but I still feel the pain from her actions years ago (and have talked to her about it). Feeling lost about whether to just leave or to try and work things out

like

More Posts

Hi Folks. Switching from product base to service base at level 9 in accenture in SAP Domain .
Can some1 explain how the journey starts from day 1.
Heard Noise abt client interviews , bench process,layoffs etc etc.
Need Serious Comforting advise.

like

Hi Deloitte fishes, do you have an idea of how long it takes to get formal offer after verbal offer?

Hey All Is it anyone from Enterprise and SMB banglore team? Could you please help about WLB hows team?Jio Platforms Limited

Thinking about the NFL today and that I really don't want to work on anything connected to football. Given how dangerous we know this sport is I don't feel right supporting it. (Continued in comments)

like

Hi,

Is anyone facing same situation?

Post Photo
like

Can M7 schools change? Ex, can Columbia or Kellogg be replaced by, say, Yale or Darden?

like

When is intent to apply? Ready / anxious to start the process! 😬😃

like

Nagarro or accenture?

like

Nagarro car rental
Hi Nagarrians, Can I give an account number of a different person and the bill/ RC of other?
I don't want to give the account number of same person of whose RC I have given..

Please help out a newbie here.
TIA

like

I want to know whether the Medical Policy of 3 Lac which is given by the company by default in which along with me my immediate dependents like my spouse and children are covered or not?

like

Anyone looking for Gartner referrals feel free to DM me!

like

Hi, Can someone provide me reference for this job post in publicis as I have applied on LinkedIn but getting the cv shortlisted is not easy.
Job profile- Paid Social

Post Photo
like

Now that Facebook is Meta, I thought I’d just pitch MANGA as the new FAANG…

like
like

Considering leaving my agency after just a couple months in pharma - feeling underutilized and stuck.

My question: do I leave this stint off my resume entirely? List the parent agency instead of the wellness arm? Pass it off as freelance? Not trying to be dishonest I just know this experience probably isn’t relevant when going out for non-pharma jobs.

like

What are some of your favorite social listening and analytics tools you’ve used as a CM? My team is looking into new tools and would love to get some recommendations

like

how is recruitment in general happening in Dubai at the moment? I was told it slows down during Eid and now with summer around the corner, recruitment activities are not high..

any comments ?

like

My friend bought a nice condominium and his agent assured him that it had a garage. AFTER he signed the papers and moved in, the neighbors told him that the unit does not come with a garage. Can he sue the agent? He feels ripped off.

like

Saving for a home. Should I save my money in a CD or savings account?

like

Selling 2 Acer HD Dual Screens + Docking Station if anyone is in need of some WFH upgrades. 21.5 inch HD LCD monitors and an HP Thunderbolt 120W G2 docking station. Lmk if interested!

like

Additional Posts in Men of India

Is it okay to trim your chest hair?

Note: Not the entire chest, just the hair visible in case your top 2 buttons are open/or the hair which is above your vest area.

like

Peeps, what's your fap frequency? (no of times Done daily/weekly)

like

Bhai log. T20 Cricket Worldcup start hone wala hai. Thoughts? Are you guys excited? Kya lagta hai India ke chances ke baare mei?

likefunny

Guys thoughts on #NNN..??
Any 1 lost already..?

like

Kya chal raha dosto nind ni aa ri yaar😂

like

Has anyone tried PRP treatment for hair loss?
I don't have male pattern baldness, but patchy hair loss and doctors are saying two session of prp would be enough.

Is it good? Whether it restored your hairs?

like

Hello bros,
Need one suggestion. My close friend is gng to marry soon. So I need some suggestions to what I should give as a gift. Until now I gave gift with group. This time I'm giving by myself.
I can't afford expensive things.
Thanks in advance!!

like
like

⚠ OFF TOPIC ⚠
GYM 🦈 please suggest diet chart for fat loss (vegetarian) & (office going)

1. How can I build 6 pack abs on vegetarian diet and I'm not interested to take creatine or any cutting steroids. How much time will it take.

2. How much weight should I lift and how to improve weights in gym for weight training.

6 feet height
80kg weight
22% body fat
4 months gym

like

I am feeling like going for Pee again and again... Is it sign of Sugar...

like

Hey guys.. anyone looking for good friend... Getting saturated with wfh :(

like

Guys, ditch your briefs and trunks.

Switch to boxer briefs. They're the best.

Someone recommended me them 2 days back and I wonder why did I not know about this since past 7-8 years.

Thank me later 😂😂

like

Guys need your suggestion here.

Please help me with my decision.

I am 32 divorced and I have decided to not marry again also i don't have any other other responsibilities /loans etc.

Currently earning 18 lpa and I am planning to buy a car which is worth 16 lakhs. Should I go ahead or should l lower my budget as per my current salary package

like

My salary is 16LPA fix +10% variable pay. M i earning enough? Have a family of 3. Additional info- Rented house in Delhi, car emi

like

Are such polos allowed( look good) at Office ?

Post Photo
like

Offtopic:

Took a Tommy Hilfiger watch few years ago and wanted to get it repaired. How do I get it done?

Don't remember the outlet I took it from

What's the amount you generally spend while buying office clothes?

like

Only for men:

How do you deal with a best friend breakup?

I know friendship breakups between men are not talked about openly, but I had to.

Best friend was a Male too

like

Let's make this group better. Suggestions?

Thinking to drop a few YT videos on fashion, clothing, grooming etc

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal