Huge crush on a coworker……know I shouldn’t do anything …

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Only do something if you’re a woman / very attractive man.

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If it isn’t mutual don’t.

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Dear Penthouse…

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Get under someone else, it’ll help

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Start with a conversation, and be clear with your intention. Often times once you get to know someone the attraction fades, but it never hurts just being friends. Who knows, maybe it will lead somewhere. If it is meant to be, it will happen, if it's not it won't, but at the end of the day you'll never know until you talk to him. Also don't be afraid to face rejection, as an adult there is no shame in going after what you want (respectfully please!), just remember rejection can be an amicable thing, and it can save you the mental energy of "what could've been" haunting you later down the line.

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+1, although I would just start with a flirtatious convo and see versus declaring intention up front. Less awkward for both if they’re not interested or if it just doesn’t make sense for whatever reason

If it’s only attraction just admire

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Do you work together on a daily basis, on the same team, etc? Or do you simply see them around the office and have the occasional conversation?

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Bang them out

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Some successful, happily married couples met at work and still work together. It happens. Read your company’s policy. Make sure your feelings are reciprocated. Stay professional at work.

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Bang em out

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Do you direct them?😂

Not just peers

Me too have crush with co workers but i am not in one team with him. So its hard to approach him, but i do like him.

Go for it what could go wrong lol

Would it be awkward if it didn't work? Do you work in same projects?

Do it

Just show interest in there hobbys and stuff and whats happening in there life be suttle enough just do enough to let them know you find them special and they stand out in the crowd and be as true to your self as possible and love yourself more then them go running do things that both confidence and a sense of achievement it will show I promise

Definitely not. You’re asking for trouble. You’re asking for gossip. You’re asking to lose your job.

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Anyone in search of dating / LTR?

I’m 26, 5’10” (prefer same height or taller), Libra, live in Manhattan, have a dog, drink socially, socially active but not a working out kind of person/super fit (dad bod), full time professional, live alone, have goals, ambivert, side ↘️

Feel free to HMU. 😊

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My associate does minimal reviewing, if even, usually it goes straight to my vp. And even my vp has pulled pages together.

Is it valid to ask my vp to chat about this? I'm not even expecting a 50/50 but pulling even 1% of the pages would make me not want to shoot myself

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I never had any conflicts with anyone, but i felt that they all connered me. I had a call with my director and senior director and explained about this on my last day

i never met my teammates in office since i joined and resigned in covid.
Did this happen coz i dint have much rappo with them?

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If your GF is interested in a 3some, what are your thoughts on that? 🤭

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For the F 🐠 - is it really that hard out there in your city? What’s been your biggest challenge with finding the right guy? Any regrets not making it work w/ an ex or friend zone guy from the past?

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I've just started my new role as HR state manager for a large international law firm.

I'm a male and my admin is female. After working with her for a week and discussing it with my wife, I think my admin is a little smitten for me.

I have no feelings towards her whatsoever and have been nothing but very professional in all interactions.

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