I feel like I have no actual friends in my home office. I only go out after work with the team that I'm on. I'm in no groupchats or anything. Will this hurt me in the long run?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

You don't want to be in group chats

like

I’ve never been in a group chat and things worked out just fine for me

likehelpful

Network with the people that matter (I.e. people that can promote your career progression). There are too many happy hours to hit them all, and the best connections I have made are with the teams I work with the most.

helpful

Going out with your team is networking. A solid network grows over time, organically. One of your team members goes to industry, you go to a new team, meeting new people, and so on.

Going to a conference and shaking as many hands as possible will get you nowhere. The quality of your work product will get your name in far more conversations, and you won't even have to be there to sell yourself.

like

You'll be okay

No. It would only hurt your if you don’t socialize with your actual teams

Group chats don't add any real value.

Nothing good going on in those group chats anyway

Meh it's whatever don't worry

Nah. Just make sure to leave a group impression on your senior/manager/partner.

Sorry. Answer is yes. N-E-T-W -O-R-K

Related Posts

I have desk whiskey in my home office that I use for most days that end in “y”.

likefunny

Hi everyone I am relocating to Hyderabad next month. Even though I look forward to meeting new people I can’t seem to ignore the fact that I will move away from family. My family situation is already complicated, my mom and dad are not on good terms so we don’t live together and when I move it’ll get worse. I am financially independent but I feel guilty for not being there for them. Is there any possibility of getting transferred to Gurgaon office(a lot closer to my home)if I talk to my manager?

like

I was devastated when I realized I had to cut my twin sister and even my mom to some degree out of my life in order to have peace of mind. It makes me sad I feel better without their burdens. ☹️

likehelpful

I need friends. Feel lonely when everyone else is partying up.

like

Need a good recommendation for a home office chair. I work from home a lot and need a new chair. My new one isn’t cutting it for me- it’s not comfy and I have lower back pain.

like

Hi fishes,
Want some feedback for Employees Assistant Program (EAP) by Capgemini which provides facilities to connect with Therapist.
Actually I am going through some tough times(going through a divorce), want to connect to EAP to discuss my mental health issues.
I had connected once and they say that the conversations are strictly confidential.
Just wanted to know do they really keeps stuff confidential or can they inform my Manager regarding the personal conversations.

like

Married men of this group,
What advice would you like to give to the younger generation who are single/about to get married?

like

Help!! My bestfriend is doing two months abroad and was trying to fly into turkey when they told her she couldn't because her passport expired within three months.

She went to the US Embassay in Athens knowing she had a month left of traveling, and gave her an emergency passport and punched holes in her exsisting one. Now no country will let her in with her emergency passport.

Can her mom get her a passport in the US and ship it to her? Is there anyway around this?

Thank you!!

like

At what age as an EA did you marry, if at all? I find myself devoted to my career which leaves little time for a romantic relationship, especially during Covid. Hoping there is some balance to be found in this role!

like

Been having trouble moving on since girlfriend ended relationship 3 weeks ago after 2+ years of dating. Before ending it she came over 3 weeks prior to basically give me a chance to work things out and we had a good discussion but then I went back into our routine and didn’t really fight for it or have serious follow up convos that we needed. Now I just have so many regrets that I let her go. I know we still love each other and left on “good” terms but can’t forgive myself for my lack of action.

like

Planning on telling my parents about my white boyfriend this weekend…. Any tips or words or motivational words please

like

Any recommendations for a work desk?
Not looking for something too big or pricey. Easy assembly / disassembly is a plus.
I see foldable desks going for $100. Any foldable standing desks out there?

like

If you like piña coladas and getting caught in the rain, if you're into yoga and you have half a brain, if you like making love at midnight in the dunes on the cape; Then I'm the love that you've looked for... write to me and escape

likeupliftingfunny

Any single moms (by choice or by circumstance) on FB? A friend from my old firm is thinking of going it alone, any stories from the consulting trenches? She's in a local model, boss is supportive.

like

What to do when parents dig their toes into your relationship? They don't approve of who I'm with and very vocal about it.

In 10 years, this may be in the rear view or they may not let up. Anyone with experience in this?

like

Hello! I am being asked to create a "back to school" shopping list for my art class. What would you suggest asking for from parents? I'm moving to a new school with no former art program.

What is the appropriate way to sympathize with relatives when their loved ones pass away. I never know what to say on the phone other than ask is everyone ok and I am sorry to hear their loss. Cont...

like

Hi all, I’m considering a move to Chicago but am trying to understand costs of childcare. How much should I expect to spend for two kids (3 and 1 yr) in a daycare center?

like

it’s been 3 years in this city and I really need to hang out with someone other than my boyfriend. But I’m terrible at “networking"

likeuplifting

I often wonder why I did accounting because the services I provide to my clients mean nothing to them. At the wake of my friend's dad tonight, he asked for my help during dealing with his family

like

More Posts

Succeeding in growth investing - how much is natural brains / talent / intelligence to know what to look at vs. can be learned / hard work?

like

Is Infosys giving permanent work from home ? But the clause in offer letter mentions they can call with 60 days notice.

Can fishes help here ?Infosys

Does any of the big4 firm allow working remote from Canada/ overseas? Any policies that restrict that?

Larsen & Toubro Infotech How is LTI in Bangalore? Do they have enough projects in Bangalore? I could see most of the requirements in Mumbai, Pune?Larsen & Toubro Infotech

like

Why won’t AA let me book business class flights with points if they’re available to buy cash? (Qatar flight on AA site)

like

Should you mark that an Employer should not be contacted if asked on application? EEOC Discrimination COMPLAINT FILED during Pandemic. Contract was not renewed!
Are past employers contacted without being listed as a reference?

like

Are we permitted work phones? New joiner today!

like

Is roomba s9+ worth it?

like

The call volume on 200C for this Friday is comical... yes this was also GME post.

like

Fully expect this question to generate a lot of snarky replies but: what types of non-M&A roles could I pivot to with 10 years experience of PMI/execution work (consulting+industry)? I’m tired of deal work.

likefunny

Has anyone gotten the job because you sent a reconsideration email after being rejected?

Alabama is good but also appears to be favored by the football gods. Georgia has that game and should have won

like

Might be guilty of this time to time

Post Photo
likefunny

Hi!! If anyone here works for Axis, how do your titles work? I’m used to trainee (0-2 YOE), underwriter (2-4), senior underwriter (4+), then avp/executive underwriter.

like

Here's to a GREAT Friday! Cheers, luvs! 😘

Post Photo
likehelpful

How to get out of the project facing difficulties in coding no work am doing as even there is no back fill resources , tasks are delaying and piling and even it's affecting my mental health can't able to focus on work as well as my personal life any suggestions much appreciated

Disparately need release from this project to my base location
I am in client location

How to get out of this project immediately

like

Any senior writers looking in NY? Send me your books.

like

Where can I check my health insurance status in deloitte india portal? Also is there any provision for domiciliary claim?

like

Additional Posts in Accounting

Which offer should I accept? Currently staff 2 at big 4 in Tax with CPA license. I want to leave tax ASAP. Both are public companies +1B in revenue and same salary. Offer 1 - staff revenue accountant so reading contracts, speaking with the sales team and legal team, a lot of work at the end of the months to close books and reconcile transactions to make sure we are ASC 606 compliant. This track usually leads to director of revenue. Offer 2 - internal audit staff so SOX and compliance projects.

likefunny

What are raise amounts or percentages per year?

like

What's the budget range for partner(as a percentage to associate hours)for a tax provision engagement, in general?

like

Want to start doing something more meaningful with my life, where do I start?

like

Senate just past their tax bill. I am starting to think that tax reform is actually going to happen.

like

Time warner is so sneaky! They charged me extra and took off my discount with no notification! Hate it! Is Verizon fios way better?

like

Team is already talking about eating hours. My utilization is down cause I was in unassigned for a month in Dec/Jan. What's worse pissing off the partner or having a low utilization? -staff 1

like

How do i see my utilization?

like

It's refreshing to see RBC's committment to no 2020 layoffs. Anyone know if any other banks are following suit?

like

Passed the CIA. 🍾 I'm rolling deep in the letters... CPA, CFE too. What should I do next?

like

A manager always wants me to ask the S. Manager questions all the time, why can’t they ask the S. manager themselves...

likefunny

Taking BEC tomorrow... any suggestions/ advice?

like

What industries is the CFE certification used for? How does it compare to CPA in the length of the material and difficulty? Do most firms pay for It?

like

Just got a jury summons and wrote in my occupation as accountant. What do you normally put on documents? CPA, Accountant, Auditor?

like

Is it possible to transfer from Risk Assurance to Tax as a senior and keep your title? I have my CPA and one year exp in audit and tax

like

If I accept an offer with another big 4 and give my two weeks as a staff, what are the chances I am asked to leave before serving my two weeks?

like

I hate to see good people go because of money. Why don't the firms just pay them more? It's almost impossible to find new replacement managers and so it would be worth it to pay up.

like

I don’t understand how people keep posting about the bench and being unassigned. I’m in advisory(not audit) and my entire LoS is trending 90%+ utilization

like

Rising Audit seniors: what % increase in salary are you all expecting and what office? I'm in Dallas and expecting 15% raise.

like

When it's almost 5pm and you are finally able to start on the task you were supposed to spend most of the day on.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal