I really just want to sell my house, buy a converted van, live in it with my 2 cats and do temp work to make ends meet. I don’t and it does t make sense, but it seems like such a better life.

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I have a non-lawyer friend who just took a year off to do this with her husband & their dog. I’m so incredibly jealous & would love to do that at some point.

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Ugh that sounds great!

You’re in good company. I saw a man fishing at 10am on a random Wednesday, and I was instantly jealous of the leisurely life I assume he must live. I’ve never even held a fishing pole, but still.

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I never fished either. But can you imagine doing anything at 10am without worrying about work?? That would be amazing.

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I understand. My partner and I talk about taking money saved, selling what we owe, buying some land and a small house in Belize and have a baby turtle & sno cone booth.

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Oh that sounds better!

Are you me? And what are you doing with my cats?

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Maybe working 12 hours a day billing like crazy doesn’t make sense either.

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My wife and I seriously talk about doing this in the next 10 years!

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I feel you! I’ve been watching a lot of van life videos on YouTube and I’m so tempted to do it.

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Right? Go watch some ones about the things that suck about it though. That helps.

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I am doing this right now. I am 4 months in with 2 to go, and I am craving the stability that I left. But it was absolutely a necessary departure from the status quo. I needed it and I fully recommend it. Travel aside, it's very liberating to quit your job and see that the world doesn't end.

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Bought a camper van during covid and worked remotely for a while. Loved it. Hoping to go out again soon. Didn’t sell the house or quit the job, but working lakefront in Colorado beat the hell out of staring at my condo wall in DC.

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You know your situation better than anyone, but it was surprising how practical it was for me to do my job on the road (big law lit mid level associate) With a hotspot, a back up generator, and my laptop, no one at my firm even knew I wasn’t at my home working. And the ability to go out and take a morning hike in nature before and after the workday made the normal work schedule eminently more bearable.

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I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. It’s making my job harder the more I think about doing it.

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Right?!

Soooo I am doing this, except I don't have cats.

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Wow, that's amazing! What kind of jobs do you think you will be looking for in the future?

Hear me out….what if you just did it

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All practical concerns. Just needing you to pave the way!

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Sounds like a lot of people think about this. Has anyone actually done it? What was your experience? I quit big law to co-found a real estate PE fund, where I’m also the general counsel. Different, and better, life, but not exactly going totally off the grid!

No. I was not in PE at any of the 3 big law firms I worked at. Before I go-founded the PE firm where I later came in as GC, I read—a lot—and found some really great people in the field I could talk to by going to conferences, taking PE-related CLE courses, etc. Feel free to DM me if you’re interested in discussing further, but I come from a long line of entrepreneurs and apparently have a high risk tolerance. A former colleague once told me that I was the “least risk averse lawyer” he ever knew. I don’t know whether that was a compliment or a criticism!

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