I want to hear from him and I don’t want to hear from him at the same time. Work keeps me busy during the day and then once it’s over I feel that emptiness in my stomach that makes me feel unbalanced.

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Today is a day I feel hopeless. Not all days are like this. If it helps you, my therapist told me that intense feelings cannot last for that long. So you get a break from them in some way. That being said they always come back for me.

Today I am just feeling like I am never going to get over this person or be able to feel the same way for a new person. I’ve tried dating but I am just not into it and it’s not fair to the other person. Anyway here to chat with the heartbroken!

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