I work for a specialized group in my litigation group and have had a wonderful experience and really respect and appreciate my boss, the co-chair of this specialized group. I’ve now accepted the opportunity to take over my parents business and plan to leave practice this summer. How do I even start this conversation with him? I’m sure I care a lot more than the group does, but I feel like because he went out of his way to really mentor and bring me into his group, i feel bad.

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Express all of that in a card and a gift. Have a standing offer for lunch and use it. It will be appreciated.

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It’s always hard when an associate you’ve mentored leaves (at least it is for me), but you’re probably not the first and you probably won’t be the last. Get some private time with him, perhaps over lunch or a beer. Give it to him straight and express your thanks for what he taught you and your time with the group. It will be fine.

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Just have an honest conversation and express all of your gratitude. Nobody will expect anything more IMO.

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