Is it ok to take time off when you are feeling mentally exhausted? My partner has been toxic, deadlines have been insane, and my personal life is falling apart.

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Yes. I’m at the point where everyone I work with knows my mental health is dwindling. I said if I don’t take some time off soon I’m going to end up on the news.

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Yea. Take the time. It’s really important to protect your mental health.

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Yes please take care of yourself first before your project or clients. You are important and you matter 👍

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