Is there a FB group for "venting at your SO and/or the in-laws"? I need one after this MDW...

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I will join that for fun. * single here *

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Go for it OP. This is a safe space

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It's called marriage life ...welcome !

Cliff notes version: my SO is always late, his family is even worse, and it drives me crazy. Especially when I'm the one dealing with NYC tunnel traffic after driving 5 hours

I even set a 'drop dead' leaving time with 2 hrs of cushion, and they even managed to miss that... I guess cutting your fingernails is more important than, idk, not making me hulk out over #mdw traffic

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