My dad is bad with money. He's 67, has no retirement savings, and gets by with a PT job & social security. He is about $25k short of owning his home outright & currently rents it to a family member, making just enough to cover the mortgage. The family member now wants to buy the house. He is considering this as he feels like he'll lose the house to the govt if he ever needs nursing home care; I think he'll blow the money & I'll be saddled w his medical expenses. What to do?

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You have no moral obligation to bail out family who didn’t make the right choices, whether or not you are in a position to help is a different story. If the time comes and the need presents itself, there is always Medicaid-funded assisted living.

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Sell the house and buy a perpetual annuity with the proceeds.

And, he might lose the house to the government if he needs nursing home care but if he sells the house they will also liquidate all his other assets so either way the estate ends up with $0. If your goal is to keep him from burning through the money quickly so that you are in the hook, an annuity at least guarantees a lifetime income stream.

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What is his approximate net worth? His current health and ability/desire to pursue side gigs?

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Sell the house and buy Index Universal Life Insurance. It stays invisible to everyone if he should need money this would be the way to access those funds by loaning them to himself.
Creditors and predators cannot access this money which will give a slight buffer for vulnerability.

In addition there are annuities that will give you double for your long term care if you roll over $100k or more.

Both solid options to support future unexpected challenges.

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