My family is concerned about me becoming an officer. I could see why, but what are some things you've told your families to put them a bit more at ease about the field you're in?

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I have explained to them that while the risks are there, they are also mitigated by safety measures that are in place. I have also told them about the extensive training I went through and how it prepares me for any situation that may come up.

I think my family was much more at ease when they knew that I had a good understanding of what I was getting into and that I was fully committed to serving my community.

I've shared some of the most rewarding aspects of the job, like helping people in need or making a difference in someone's life.

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